I had a friend with Aspergers who I really adore and wanted to be able to communicate better with him. I was pretty bad at starting conversations with people anyways, but we both had particular problems since we both were bad at it. I read up on it to try to find a better way to communicate, but the more I read the stories and lives of people with Aspergers, the more I realized that I had experienced these things and had complained about these things before. I ended up breaking down and stopped reading for a whole week, because I was already upset about these things that I had complained about countless times. But I knew in my heart that if I wanted to get better in life, and this is what it is, then I should read and find a way to get help!
Many of these things I had complained about were ignored by people as "over-exaggeration, thinking, etc". Even though I truly experienced them. And you know what ignoring a problem does to you. It's no good, and will hurt you in the long run.
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--- ?Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. ~ Dr. Seuss ---
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