Gain communication skills, loose others?
Long timers here have noticed that in the past two years, the quantity and quality of my output here on this board has dropped off quite a bit. During that time I've had to learn and become rather proficient at writing for the medium of television where time is measured in 30th's of a second and every word needs to have maximum impact. When I sit down here and try to type out a post, I find my brain wanting to revert to that same method of writing for a post here and I often find myself not being able to come up with a coherent response that doesn't read like an associated press wire story. The same thing holds true for other mediums like e-mail, IM and others. Believe it or not, at one point here when there was a stats page that you could go to for board info, I was top poster here for some time. I'm probably the least witty and verbose person on earth - it always takes me a few seconds to formulate a verbal response to a question and much longer to process something where emotion is behind the statement which is why I've always liked forums as they don't work in real time. But now I feel I like my brain is getting stuck in a mode I don't want it to be in and I don't know how to get it unstuck.
This post took me 30 minutes to write BTW.
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I live my life to prove wrong those who said I couldn't make it in life...
Wow, this is spooky. You're totally speaking for me. Ever since I can remember, I've wanted to express myself, through writing or drawing or what not. I've been very clumsy at it, and it was only recently that I forced myself to approach it in new ways, and somehow I started getting it right, difficult as it was. The problem now though is that once I get locked into one form of expression (say photography, and a particular style at that), then I lose my ability to just about anything else. I feel like an oil tanker - slow, and with multi-mile turning radius.
I don't have a way around it. I just accept that I have periods when I'll do one thing and not another, and give myself several days to change modes. I write (screenplays, short stories and a political blog), I draw, and I code - just never more than one at a time.
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