heliocopters wrote:
I was talking to a guy in one of my classes last night, we'll call him G, and there's this kid who I'm sure has undiagnosed AS or something very similar like NLVD (in fact, he's probably a perfect candidate) who is also in our class, who we will call A, and G was telling me how irritating A was, and how much he couldn't stand him, and I felt like it was prejudiced (not necessarily his fault because I'm sure he's uneducated on the topic, and why we need to spread the word of mind-worky-differences).
Do we have a word for prejudice against those of us with different brains? Not just autism, but also Tourett's and others. I kind of want to call this kid out, because well, he was being kind of a jerk. BRAINSTORM TIME.
I'm guessing that G has no idea about autism, or the possibility that A might have a disability. I've known several people in the past who, in hindsight, I realize were probably on the spectrum. One of them was an interesting guy, but very strange. Whenever he left the room, we'd look at each other and say something like, "Wow. There's no one in the world like Hooper, is there? What a character." None of us had a clue about autism (this was 1986), we just knew he was very different. He wasn't disliked, because he wasn't annoying. But he was definitely unusual.
Another guy was the type who would stand too close, pick his nose in front of people, and smile when he was being insulted. He had a lot of AS traits, and may have been on the spectrum (again, late 80's), but we all just saw him as a slightly annoying guy who seemed to try too hard. It was unpleasant being around him because there was always a risk that you'd see whatever he dug out of his nose. And when people got angry with him for being annoying, he would smile or laugh, as if he thought they were being playful. That would make people even more annoyed, because none of us (me included) could understand why he was acting like that. So, yeah, we didn't like him much. We tolerated him, because he was a co-worker. But none of us had any idea that he might have had a disability, because we had never heard of such a thing.