Why is this happening?

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usually iam treated really well by people but for the last week or so people who were previously nice too me have taken a disliking towards me and treat me like i am a pest. even my friends, brother and parents are are fed up with me


do you think because of my AS maybe i am not aware that i am behaving more "weirdly" than usual?

Don't know jamesy, but if they been as vague as you, then thats the problem.

( if you can close your eyes & walk back your memory like a video )

Try and think back to the point of when it started.
Then try and think of what you did before.

Or

( if you can close your eyes & you attach a key )

You walk up to a table, & look down and you see a key. You pick up the key & look around & see a container on the wall. You walk up to the container & insert the key. You open the container & inside they is a item you were looking at, at the time, it like a sound, something on tv, flashing light, maybe music. You stare at the box & you can see your memory more clearly. ( & if that don't work, or you can just ask them. )

Or maybe they just at the bar of enough. If you did not do something.

lol it seems even the posters on wrong planet are annoyed with me today. seasonal affective disorder perhaps? or maybe its 'seasonal lets use james as a scapegoat disorder' perhaps?

Not annoyed at you jamesy. Just not mind readers ( hold on a sec I will try ). Think harder jamesy, I think I am getting something. ( veins popping out of my head ). Nearly there try harder jamesy.

Never mind it's just my parrot nibbling on my neck.

Edit " by the way do you have a diagnosis of affective disorder or was that directed outwards like the scapegoat one."

As Techno points out, if everyone around you suddenly changes their behaviour towards you at the same time, it's most likely your behaviour that's different than before.

I often have days or weeks where I can annoy a lot of people around me, unintentionally. They so happen to be the moments when I'm upset about something. It probably looks to them as if I don't care about them but only about myself. I often don't tell them what's upsetting me either, as it often seems to silly and minor to them, which could lead to more frustration on my end.

Whenever I'm not upset I'm behaving happy and quite hyperactive. People seem to adore that mode a lot more, though I try to limit the hyperactive behaviour, as that might make people annoyed and tired as well, and in turn it would make them ignore me.

I've been on this site for a while, as have you, and I have read over and over again posts from you which indicate how badly your brother and parents treat you. The fact that you are feeling it more now suggests to me that something about how you view this behaviour has changed - you're more sensitive to it now for some reason.

When this happens to me it's usually because I'm tired or something else is stressing me.

Of course, it could be that they really are all just treating you more badly because something about the way you are behaving has changed. This has also happened to me, for a variety of reasons.

Try to keep smiling and ride it out.