Todesking wrote:
Does anyone remember their first day in kindergarden? . I was the only kid not crying or carrying on like some clingy monkey. What do you remember?
No angst , as I was accustomed to it right off the bat , as I was in a
Catholic nursery school before -(1969). I can recall a very tall girl running out of the classroom and then down the hall crying searching for her mother. Some others were in angst when they figured out that their mother had to leave and they were going to have stay behind .
Todesking wrote:
I'd say it took the other kids about an hour or two to relise I was strange. The girl next to me said I was mean and then said they are not going to talk to me. I remember being relieved then I went back to staring out the window at the leaves on the trees blowing in the wind.
I wouldn't know what they thought of me because I did things on my own and didnt talk to them. In fact I do recall the assistant teacher making many efforts to get me to work with the others in a group project, but I resisted her and refused .
No reprisals though, and I think she had a bit of compassion about her as she sensed my discomfort with this notion, and she would dangle the carrot to make it palatable in a psychological way-but I had a stalwart approach against it .
She always conceded to me though, but always trying something new in a discreet way as the school year progressed.
I have a hunch it could have been ugly if she used force . I do recollect in that Catholic nursery school it got ugly there a few times.
- She put a bar of soap in my mouth and then looked at her watch to count the time, she then removed the bar of soap and walked me over to the drinking fountain.
-I refused to get my picture taken once, and it got real ugly there when they tried to get me in front of the camera.
(Ive always been uneasy about photographs)