For me I am extroverted, but yes I am aware of my social difficulties, but I also know I can never understand the extent of it as I just plain cant understand.
Yes the aut part applys to me, because even when I am in a social situation, I am always sort of imposing my own topics on the conversation, I find it hard to converse in the way normal people do, they seem to do a lot of non-topic specific conversation and i need topics! Also I spend a lot of time daydreaming and fidgeting wth objects when I am with people. Sometimes I walk off from them, take a break.
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"Caravan is the name of my history, and my life an extraordinary adventure."
~ Amin Maalouf
Taking a break.