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zeldapsychology
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26 May 2010, 1:20 pm

As an Aspie of course I don't understand social rules etc. My friends boyfriend mention the teacher was an hour late I was going to Facebook a nice comment of ya I've experienced that etc. glad you made 100% on your test etc. but not sure if I SHOULD! I've never met him! and only requested him since my friend is his girlfriend! Should I NOT message him? I'm confused! For some reason the social rules would probably be a NO! but I'm not 100% certain as an Aspie of course LOL!. Thanks!



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26 May 2010, 1:23 pm

It's hard to say. You could appear to be flirting with him, but it kind of depends. You could just hit the like button.



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26 May 2010, 1:27 pm

I hit Like and commented I've had teachers be late before LOL! (that's what I put) not to bad huh? Not a whole message just a "Like" and a short comment. Fine IMO.



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26 May 2010, 1:31 pm

That seems kind of irritating to say "LOL!!". No need for such enthusiasm.

But, I do not find anything wrong with commenting on his profile. I doubt he'll think you're flirting with him.


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26 May 2010, 1:33 pm

Ferdinand wrote:
That seems kind of irritating to say "LOL!!". No need for such enthusiasm.

But, I do not find anything wrong with commenting on his profile. I doubt he'll think you're flirting with him.


Oh. Darn it! I love showing enthusiasm and put LOL! in alot of my comments/posts etc. LOL=Laugh Out Loud which indicates I found X comment/experience kind of funny. It's funny a teacher would be an hour late they are supposed to be professional or the other day my nephew said to mommy I love daddy more LOL! (Since he's only 3 and kids say silly things). Perhaps I need to back off from all the LOL! stuff. :-)



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26 May 2010, 1:46 pm

zeldapsychology wrote:
Ferdinand wrote:
That seems kind of irritating to say "LOL!!". No need for such enthusiasm.

But, I do not find anything wrong with commenting on his profile. I doubt he'll think you're flirting with him.


Oh. Darn it! I love showing enthusiasm and put LOL! in alot of my comments/posts etc. LOL=Laugh Out Loud which indicates I found X comment/experience kind of funny. It's funny a teacher would be an hour late they are supposed to be professional or the other day my nephew said to mommy I love daddy more LOL! (Since he's only 3 and kids say silly things). Perhaps I need to back off from all the LOL! stuff. :-)


Well, I think that's nice that you have a little quirk. Cherish it.


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26 May 2010, 2:47 pm

Nothing wrong with commenting on people's FB posts - and nothing wrong with an enthusiastic LOL if you find something funny. If I see something comment-worthy on FB, I comment on it - I figure people want comments if they're going to post something, plus it's a good way to get to know people.