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sufi
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01 Jul 2010, 5:06 am

My daughter is an adult bully (38). She can say things that cut you to the core. If you are not of the opinion she has, your stupid. She knows how to push peoples buttons. She can say, "please excuse me" but it will sound lik 'get the f*** out of my way". Because of her criticism I feel like she does not respect me.

I don't think she is aware of this behavior. Is there anyway to make her aware of how she can hurt people?

Is there any hope she will change? My grandmother was like this and died having people hate her for her domineering and too blunt comments.


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01 Jul 2010, 5:21 am

If she is doing this unknowingly, then yes, she just has to learn how she is perceived. My mum says similar things about me, she's always saying I sound aggressive when I'm not intentionally doing it.