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MONIQUEIJ wrote:
you guys don't get my kids are going to have special needs ( everyone in my family does) and i want them to have a high self estem. and to love me and to be proud of me. in sometimes money as a parent you have to show it. but of course i'm gonna make my kids do chores in stuff like that. i guess by spoil i meant stuff i should of got but never got example
1. a house with a working mother and father with all of my kids together and not in foster care.
2, each child have his own room and bed
3. a birthday party well atleast 1 or 2
4. vacations every summer with all the family
5. privet teacher so they can get in education and wont worry about being made fun of everyday
6. a mother who tells them she loves them and they are beautiful everyday to help them build self up.
7. kids who even thou they have a special need they be inspired by there moma to work hard.
8. a college fun for i hope 30,000 each ( and i don't care how sever my child disibiltiy is i'm still doing it i will never give up on my child)
9. make sure they have, clean cloths, food, bills payed on time
10. christmast atleast 10 gifts each if not more
11. other expansive like tirps with friends and family.
12. no shopping spree they only going shopping at the beging of the year and at the summer time.
13. chores chores and more chores.
14. watch who they hang with.
15. make them go into acting or modeling or anything to put them working in they feel proud of themselves
1. a house with a working mother and father with all of my kids together and not in foster care.
2, each child have his own room and bed
3. a birthday party well atleast 1 or 2
4. vacations every summer with all the family
5. privet teacher so they can get in education and wont worry about being made fun of everyday
6. a mother who tells them she loves them and they are beautiful everyday to help them build self up.
7. kids who even thou they have a special need they be inspired by there moma to work hard.
8. a college fun for i hope 30,000 each ( and i don't care how sever my child disibiltiy is i'm still doing it i will never give up on my child)
9. make sure they have, clean cloths, food, bills payed on time
10. christmast atleast 10 gifts each if not more
11. other expansive like tirps with friends and family.
12. no shopping spree they only going shopping at the beging of the year and at the summer time.
13. chores chores and more chores.
14. watch who they hang with.
15. make them go into acting or modeling or anything to put them working in they feel proud of themselves
Harrrrruummph again!! !
See? This is just proof that NT's aren't the only ones we have trouble communicating with.
In the words of the Wizard of OZ, "Welllll! Why didn't you say so?! That's a horse of a different color!"
Seems you define the word "spoil" much differently that I do. THIS is not what I consider "spoiling" at all. THIS is what I consider preventing your kids from getting spoiled.
Though I do feel a bit as if I've been ambushed.
Did you really not know that most of us would react the way we did? I mean, what with your comparison of diddy's kid and all? I mean, c'mon. What you're now describing isn't anything like the picture you painted in your first post. Is it?
(Those ARE intended to be honest questions by the way...)
12 Jun 2010, 5:39 pm
MrXxx wrote:
MONIQUEIJ wrote:
you guys don't get my kids are going to have special needs ( everyone in my family does) and i want them to have a high self estem. and to love me and to be proud of me. in sometimes money as a parent you have to show it. but of course i'm gonna make my kids do chores in stuff like that. i guess by spoil i meant stuff i should of got but never got example
1. a house with a working mother and father with all of my kids together and not in foster care.
2, each child have his own room and bed
3. a birthday party well atleast 1 or 2
4. vacations every summer with all the family
5. privet teacher so they can get in education and wont worry about being made fun of everyday
6. a mother who tells them she loves them and they are beautiful everyday to help them build self up.
7. kids who even thou they have a special need they be inspired by there moma to work hard.
8. a college fun for i hope 30,000 each ( and i don't care how sever my child disibiltiy is i'm still doing it i will never give up on my child)
9. make sure they have, clean cloths, food, bills payed on time
10. christmast atleast 10 gifts each if not more
11. other expansive like tirps with friends and family.
12. no shopping spree they only going shopping at the beging of the year and at the summer time.
13. chores chores and more chores.
14. watch who they hang with.
15. make them go into acting or modeling or anything to put them working in they feel proud of themselves
1. a house with a working mother and father with all of my kids together and not in foster care.
2, each child have his own room and bed
3. a birthday party well atleast 1 or 2
4. vacations every summer with all the family
5. privet teacher so they can get in education and wont worry about being made fun of everyday
6. a mother who tells them she loves them and they are beautiful everyday to help them build self up.
7. kids who even thou they have a special need they be inspired by there moma to work hard.
8. a college fun for i hope 30,000 each ( and i don't care how sever my child disibiltiy is i'm still doing it i will never give up on my child)
9. make sure they have, clean cloths, food, bills payed on time
10. christmast atleast 10 gifts each if not more
11. other expansive like tirps with friends and family.
12. no shopping spree they only going shopping at the beging of the year and at the summer time.
13. chores chores and more chores.
14. watch who they hang with.
15. make them go into acting or modeling or anything to put them working in they feel proud of themselves
Harrrrruummph again!! !
See? This is just proof that NT's aren't the only ones we have trouble communicating with.
In the words of the Wizard of OZ, "Welllll! Why didn't you say so?! That's a horse of a different color!"
Seems you define the word "spoil" much differently that I do. THIS is not what I consider "spoiling" at all. THIS is what I consider preventing your kids from getting spoiled.
Though I do feel a bit as if I've been ambushed.
Did you really not know that most of us would react the way we did? I mean, what with your comparison of diddy's kid and all? I mean, c'mon. What you're now describing isn't anything like the picture you painted in your first post. Is it?
(Those ARE intended to be honest questions by the way...)
i guess i use the wrong words at times or i use them diffently then most its kinda a bad habit
. i use diddy as in example because of the sweet sixteen thing i wanted one but never got it and i would love for my dad to be able to buy me a car for when i turn sixteen.
12 Jun 2010, 7:06 pm
12 Jun 2010, 8:21 pm
MONIQUEIJ wrote:
i guess i use the wrong words at times or i use them diffently then most its kinda a bad habit
. i use diddy as in example because of the sweet sixteen thing i wanted one but never got it and i would love for my dad to be able to buy me a car for when i turn sixteen.
. i use diddy as in example because of the sweet sixteen thing i wanted one but never got it and i would love for my dad to be able to buy me a car for when i turn sixteen.
You misspoke, I misheard. What's the difference? They both add up to miss-communication, don't they?
You know though, complaining that a hundred bucks is piddly for a gift reveals a bit about your own self being a bit spoiled. In my neck of the woods, a hundred bucks feeds my entire family for a WEEK! And I have three teenage boys! But we are frugal shoppers. Most people I know here couldn't make it that far with that amount and this many in their family.
If there's one thing I've learned, it's this:
If you don't come to know and appreciate the value of a dollar (never mind a hundred of them!), you'll never know the value of a million of them.
12 Jun 2010, 10:19 pm
