So why exactly is it that girls have social reciprocity, while boys don't? I mean, I know a guy with AS and we talk together and it seems that he takes the same amount of time to process what I say and to respond to it as I do. And usually what we say is not directly related to what each of us says. Someone else might listen and think it's disjunctive conversation, i.e. picking up bits and pieces from here and there and adding on to it. True, I have met males with AS who are less reciprocal than us, but it also depends on the type of interests that you have. Since my interests are people-oriented, I tend to process better what people say (and we talk about certain subjects only). If your interests are more object-oriented, there isn't really much to discuss. Someone with these interests would therefore be more likely to be isolated and it would be hard for them to process what other people are saying. And I think boys do tend towards more object-oriented interests, although I'm not saying that all boys are this way and that all girls are otherwise.
Ferdinand wrote:
Guys date any girl who are at least half-pretty. ASD girls have it easy.
Ha! Not true. I was only asked out in Grade 9 by this one guy with whom I then went on a very awkward date and obviously broke up afterwards.
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Leading a double life and loving it (but exhausted).
Likely ADHD instead of what I've been diagnosed with before.
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