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15 Jul 2010, 4:17 am

Well my psych told me that most people with AS can get diagnosised with OCD by itself. Well my obsession has been a particular people. I have a strong fixated interest but no rituals. I will get obessed with a person( can be romantically or non-romantically). And so I get really fustrated if I cant be around that person or if that person isnt responding to my calls or messages. I will obsess so deeply that I just cant put it down. Its been pretty bothersome for years. This started happening when I was 17 or 18 and I wondered if I had OCD. But the OCD symptoms I read off of websites was so different then what I was happening so I was like this cant be OCD. I used to be really embarressed to discuss these obesssions so no psych never really knew. Its only been recent that I've started coming to terms with my obessions and I discussed with my psych for the first time and he said it was OCD which amazed me. Does anyone else have OCD that is just so different then normal OCD? I dont know how to cope with these strong obsessions. They often drive me to do or say things that I shouldnt. I feel like my diagnosis keep accumilating. AS, depression, anxiety, now OCD. What next? gosh...



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15 Jul 2010, 4:19 am

You should get a little vest and put commemorative pins on it for each diagnosis. :lol: kind of like the Girl Scouts of Psychiatric Disorders. Don't let the names and labels change you :)


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15 Jul 2010, 4:47 am

Your psych was wrong, that is not OCD.

I have described OCD here...
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt125646.html

and towards the end of this thread here...

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt130841.html


I'm still quite horrified as to the ignorance of a very basic, fairly common, well understood disorder like OCD in the mental health community.



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15 Jul 2010, 11:10 am

i dont really know much about all the technical terms but to me it sounds like something that is perhaps related to, but still separate from ocd



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15 Jul 2010, 1:32 pm

To me it sounds more like "obsessive love" http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obsessive_love , quite common amongst teenagers but usually disappearing when you become older.

And I guess ( but that's only my opinion) that it may be related to parental issues. Kind of: giving the unconditional love you didn't recieved?

Sorry if you feel that I'm going to far. At the moment I tend to hyper-rationnalize everything - probably due to all that mess around my diagnosis. :? (And the fact that I don't speak english fluently doesn't help :roll: )



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15 Jul 2010, 4:36 pm

Oh crap....I read the Obsessive Love thing and sadly I fit a lot of it. The problem being: I dont know how to control it and stop the onset. Often times I can easily go from person to person. Its crazy.



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15 Jul 2010, 11:42 pm

Does my openness about my special interests seem to be more related to OCD, or just a very strong case of AS?


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16 Jul 2010, 12:47 am

Isserley wrote:
And I guess ( but that's only my opinion) that it may be related to parental issues. Kind of: giving the unconditional love you didn't recieved?


I read more into it and it does seem that a lot of Obsessive Love roots from a lack of love from parents. But Im pretty certain mine dosent. For the most part my parents provided a loving enviorenment I think? The cause is probably cause I was selectivly mute for 9 yrs of my childhood and I had no friends. So there was probably some developmental issues there. So I was missing some form of love. But on the otherhand...Im sure many aspies have gone w/out friends for extended pd of time?