19 Jul 2010, 8:33 pm
i really hate the fact that when a girl flirts with me, i completely freak out inside, freeze up, and become mute.
girls dont flirt with me often, but, when they do i hate that i completely waste the oppurtunity.
it's not that i feel self conscious or ugly or anything, i'm actually feeling pretty damn good about myself when it happens.
it's just, my anxiety kinda flares up, and i have no clue what to say. it's usually them commenting my car. sometimes it's something about my behavior that they for whatever reason find intruiging.
but then i clam up, give 1word answers, and end up making the girl feel uncomfortable.
F***.
how the hell do you start a conversation with someone you've just met??
what is there to talk about?
the fact that its a girl, gives me even less in common.
does anyone else share this problem, or have tips? this is so frustrating.
i just want to know how to keep calm, so i can make a girl feel comfortable around me for longer than 60 seconds.
20 Jul 2010, 12:49 pm
Be really stoned?
It makes me calm while also lowering my inhibitions so I'm not afraid to say . . . well, something, at least. I know, that's not what you're looking for, but your post looked so lonely, sitting there with no replies.
Sorry, I got nothing.
