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Erilyn
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04 Apr 2007, 2:23 pm

Many aspies supposedly have trouble with their vestibular system – the system that controls balance, coordination, and awareness of the body’s orientation in space. As a result many aspies tend to be rather clumsy or have an odd gait.

I seem to have a mix of both strengths and weaknesses in this area. I am incredibly uncoordinated – I can’t dance to save my life, I can’t seem to make my hands and fingers move independently of each other and therefore can’t play any musical instruments, my handwriting is legible but looks like a 10-year old’s, I’ve always thought I had a bit of an odd walk, and I am definitely far from a graceful runner.

Despite all this, I am not a klutz. I have a very strong awareness of my body’s balance and spatial orientation. I may not be able to direct it very well, but I know where it is, if that makes any sense. I don’t bump into things, I don’t spill or knock things over, and I don’t invade other people’s personal space (in fact I get very upset if they invade MY space). I can almost sense it when someone – or something – is too close to me. I can even see a point 30 feet away and know whether I’ll be stepping with my left or right foot when I reach it. I can feel myself slipping on ice and can adjust my centre of gravity almost immediately.

On the subject, much of the stimming I did as a child – and still do as an adult – was vestibular stimming. I love feeling a sensation of height and, as a kid, was always climbing things; I love any kind of motion, like riding in a car or flying; I love spinning rides at amusement parks; and when I was a kid I used to rock myself or stand up and spin around in circles. To this day I still love rocking chairs, and I even occasionally find myself spinning in my computer chair at home.



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04 Apr 2007, 3:18 pm

I sometimes bump into doorways, especially if I'm thinking about something while I'm walking. It's the problem of doing two things at once. But I can dance and have very good balance. A strange mix. I always rock my computer chair from side to side while I'm typing. I think I have an excess of energy, as I'm very rarely still.



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04 Apr 2007, 3:20 pm

yeah, this is called dyspraxia


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04 Apr 2007, 4:12 pm

I also loved climbing,very physical as a kid.could bike ride and skate(roller and ice)well,seldom slip on ice.I think I have good balance and loved doing balance beams.I an free style dance,OK and always enjoyed it when I was drunk enough to lose self consciousness.

But....I cant follow dance steps because I cant follow directions(more then two things).My biggest problem is judging distancs,so I have a lot of problems running into door frames,turning hall corners to sharply and ramming my shoulder.When driving I always feel like I am to close to the car in the next lane and have problems merging(basically avoid highways.)


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04 Apr 2007, 4:17 pm

Starr wrote:
I sometimes bump into doorways, especially if I'm thinking about something while I'm walking. It's the problem of doing two things at once.


I have this problem too. I had a friend who found it very funny when I'd do that when we'd walk around at work and talk. I'd often run into a doorway or the wall and just keep going like nothing happened. I guess I do it so much that I don't really notice. But later I'll wonder where all my bruises came from.



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04 Apr 2007, 5:05 pm

Erilyn wrote:
Many aspies supposedly have trouble with their vestibular system – the system that controls balance, coordination, and awareness of the body’s orientation in space. As a result many aspies tend to be rather clumsy or have an odd gait.

I seem to have a mix of both strengths and weaknesses in this area. I am incredibly uncoordinated – I can’t dance to save my life, I can’t seem to make my hands and fingers move independently of each other and therefore can’t play any musical instruments, my handwriting is legible but looks like a 10-year old’s, I’ve always thought I had a bit of an odd walk, and I am definitely far from a graceful runner.

Despite all this, I am not a klutz. I have a very strong awareness of my body’s balance and spatial orientation. I may not be able to direct it very well, but I know where it is, if that makes any sense. I don’t bump into things, I don’t spill or knock things over, and I don’t invade other people’s personal space (in fact I get very upset if they invade MY space). I can almost sense it when someone – or something – is too close to me. I can even see a point 30 feet away and know whether I’ll be stepping with my left or right foot when I reach it. I can feel myself slipping on ice and can adjust my centre of gravity almost immediately.

On the subject, much of the stimming I did as a child – and still do as an adult – was vestibular stimming. I love feeling a sensation of height and, as a kid, was always climbing things; I love any kind of motion, like riding in a car or flying; I love spinning rides at amusement parks; and when I was a kid I used to rock myself or stand up and spin around in circles. To this day I still love rocking chairs, and I even occasionally find myself spinning in my computer chair at home.


I'm like you here, but my writting was like a 6 year olds until a couple years ago. HEY, I could write pretty well. My writing is STILL better than most adults. And I run OK also.

I DO sometimes bump into things, but it IS very infrequent.

Steve



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04 Apr 2007, 6:39 pm

i feel i am in the way when around other people, so therefore i get very anxious and nervous and start dropping things, running into things, just being a general klutz. i am aware that i do things differently so people get confused with my methods, although they work for me. when alone, i don't have that problem...i draw, paint, play guitar or whatever without tech problems WHEN no one is watching me.



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04 Apr 2007, 7:15 pm

I will bump into doorways, fumble things... also couldn't go farther than a blue belt in taekwondo because I could not control the dizziness and disorientation doing spin kicks.



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04 Apr 2007, 11:56 pm

krex wrote:
I also loved climbing,very physical as a kid.could bike ride and skate(roller and ice)well,seldom slip on ice.I think I have good balance and loved doing balance beams.I an free style dance,OK and always enjoyed it when I was drunk enough to lose self consciousness.

But....I cant follow dance steps because I cant follow directions(more then two things).My biggest problem is judging distancs,so I have a lot of problems running into door frames,turning hall corners to sharply and ramming my shoulder.When driving I always feel like I am to close to the car in the next lane and have problems merging(basically avoid highways.)


This sounds a lot like me. Especially the bumping into door frames and corners. The worst is getting out of my car and walking into the sharp corner of the door as it's shutting. Ouch! You'd have thought that I would have learned after the first 20 or 30 times... :oops:

I drive on the road pretty well, but I bump into stuff when I park (like the door frame on my garage) more than would be considered normal for a good driver.

There was no such thing as AS when I was a kid, at least as far as the world knew. I actually considered myself athletic when it came to things like jumping and running. I ran weird, but I ran fast! 8) The problem was just that I crashed into stuff and fell down so often.



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05 Apr 2007, 1:25 am

People make fun of how I walk, and I walk into things often. Even my dad has told me that I walk like I have "poop in my bum."



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05 Apr 2007, 10:39 am

Everyone says I walk funny (not quite sure how it's different from anyone else, but I can't watch myself). I hate falling down, and I can catch myself pretty much every time, but I sure tend to run into things. I think my crowning glory was when I managed to slam my EAR in door as it was closing (because klutzy me failed to catch it as it swung shut).



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05 Apr 2007, 11:13 am

SarahR wrote:
Everyone says I walk funny (not quite sure how it's different from anyone else, but I can't watch myself). I hate falling down, and I can catch myself pretty much every time, but I sure tend to run into things. I think my crowning glory was when I managed to slam my EAR in door as it was closing (because klutzy me failed to catch it as it swung shut).


LOL. Don’t feel too bad – I know someone who got her toe wedged under a door once – after she tried unsuccessfully for over half an hour to get herself free, her roommates finally called 911 and the fire department came and actually had to take the door off the hinges!



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05 Apr 2007, 11:25 am

mariiha wrote:
i feel i am in the way when around other people, so therefore i get very anxious and nervous and start dropping things, running into things, just being a general klutz. i am aware that i do things differently so people get confused with my methods, although they work for me. when alone, i don't have that problem...i draw, paint, play guitar or whatever without tech problems WHEN no one is watching me.


I get that a lot. I've found that I can fight it with some success, but it takes practiced concentration. Therefore, people watching me is like an assault in effects on me, and therefore it's easy for me to resent people staring at me.


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05 Apr 2007, 5:41 pm

Erilyn wrote:
Many aspies supposedly have trouble with their vestibular system – the system that controls balance, coordination, and awareness of the body’s orientation in space. As a result many aspies tend to be rather clumsy or have an odd gait.

I seem to have a mix of both strengths and weaknesses in this area. I am incredibly uncoordinated – I can’t dance to save my life, I can’t seem to make my hands and fingers move independently of each other and therefore can’t play any musical instruments, my handwriting is legible but looks like a 10-year old’s, I’ve always thought I had a bit of an odd walk, and I am definitely far from a graceful runner.

Despite all this, I am not a klutz. I have a very strong awareness of my body’s balance and spatial orientation. I may not be able to direct it very well, but I know where it is, if that makes any sense. I don’t bump into things, I don’t spill or knock things over, and I don’t invade other people’s personal space (in fact I get very upset if they invade MY space). I can almost sense it when someone – or something – is too close to me. I can even see a point 30 feet away and know whether I’ll be stepping with my left or right foot when I reach it. I can feel myself slipping on ice and can adjust my centre of gravity almost immediately.

On the subject, much of the stimming I did as a child – and still do as an adult – was vestibular stimming. I love feeling a sensation of height and, as a kid, was always climbing things; I love any kind of motion, like riding in a car or flying; I love spinning rides at amusement parks; and when I was a kid I used to rock myself or stand up and spin around in circles. To this day I still love rocking chairs, and I even occasionally find myself spinning in my computer chair at home.


I'm a real klutz. I can't pat my head and rub my belly in a circular motion at the same time. I can ride
a bicycle and I used to ride motorcycles and drive cars. bike touring is my favorite physical pastime.
My penmanship is horrendous unless I take my time. I am very prone to getting motion sickness so I stay
out of amusement parks, besides they are too "flashy" and noisy for me. I stim by rocking back and forth.

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05 Apr 2007, 5:48 pm

My mom told me I walked like a Nazi,when I was in grade school.....She use to yell at me..."Bend your knees,bend your knees".......I just cant figure out why I am so self concious around people(lol?)


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05 Apr 2007, 8:12 pm

Krex wrote,
My mom told me I walked like a Nazi,when I was in grade school.....She use to yell at me..."Bend your knees,bend your knees".......I just cant figure out why I am so self conscious around people(lol?)


Eh, my mother did the same thing, only instead of nazi I got stalker and a horrible imitation of my walk from her. Judging from her imitation, it looks more like a badly made robot than someone sneaking by you, which is what I imagine someone would look like if they were stalking something, like a cat. Not very good for self esteem. It's annoying when people say my gate's odd, because it seems to be that they assume I've never heard it before. I've learnt to catch myself as I fall, though I don't fall often. Also managed to perfect how to fall off a bike after I accidentally hit things to minimize injury. (I can't drive in pa, as I can't pass their vision test, so I bicycle.) I do trip on my own feet if I don't pay attention to how I'm walking. Can't dance at all. I can, however, write what I'm reading without needing to look at the paper I'm writing on and have it be as straight and legible as it is when I do look at the paper. An old science teacher said he'd never seen anyone do that before. In short, my hands are the only part that do what I want them to correctly, as long as I'm not throwing or catching something. I draw and paint for hours, although I have trouble writing after a period of time. I think it's because I mostly draw/paint with wrist movements instead of moving my fingers. I can pat my head and rub my stomach, but it has to be timed. Like when my hand is at twelve on my stomach, my other hand is supposed to be in the air, they have to go at the same speed. but heaven forfend if I try and do complex things with my hands/arms/legs/whatever at the same time, like a dance move. And I hate those excersize videos where you have to mirror the instructor. Constantly screw up.


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