League_Girl wrote:
I think common sense means something lot of people would know on their own without being told.
I think that sums it up well. Common sense is what keeps us from walking into poles or driving the car into a lake. I understnd it can be used condescendingly to criticize someone for doing something wrong, but that's just a convenient misuse of the term.
DonDud wrote:
There is such a large amount of knowledge that seems to be a part of everyone's basic understanding of the world and society, and so much of that knowledge is completely lost on me. I want to ask questions, but people will wonder why I don't know what everyone else knows.
Yes. I can completely relate to this. But I don't think it has to do with common sense, because that applies to simple knowledge that just about everyone has or can be expected to have, unless they just act without thinking.
I think that the feeling of having to figure out everything from scratch when other people seem to just know what is expected is an AS trait. We are both blind to some social expectations and also used to applying logic, so when other people seem to instinctively know things we don't just accept their knowledge on faith, we want to figure it out for ourselves.
Most people just do whatever is conventional, without thinking too much about it, so they seem to have some basic understanding that we lack, but our understanding, when we acquire it eventually, is more solidly grounded. At least, that's my perception.