I have read a lot about the process of how things are diagnosed etc.
I was diagnosed 5 years ago, but I believe I sit right on the borderline, between having AS and having traits.
Although I am sure I could fork out more money and get re-diagnosed OCD and Social Anxiety or think that I'm socially awkward, it is just easier for me to use the AS label, for some government assistance, and also so I have some allowances within the welfare system. For example if they decided to put me back on unemployment benefit, they would let me look for jobs that are suitable, rather than ones completely unsuitable.
So now I just see myself as having traits, but I will still be using the label when I need to.
It's not really black and white at all, you have to work out which is the best label to use in different situations, and depending on your symptoms.
This is because there is no way to educate everyone about every disability, and individuals have different personalities and present differently.
So for yourself, you would tell some people you're Dyspraxic if you have to do something involving co-ordination, others you might tell them, I have AS traits, and say for government allowances you might put both. Other people you might not tell them anything, or you might say well I'm a bit of a geek or eccentric in a positive way.