Ever been threatend to be backeracted?

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zeldapsychology
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22 Aug 2010, 11:50 am

I made a topic about it happening again today but thought I'd make a separate topic to ask the above question. I remember 3 times I'll recall them.

1) I yanked the seat belt trying to put one of my sisters in the truck OMG you should be backeracted (I told my therapist at the time she said that was crazy) LOL!

2) Just a few days ago dad was yelling at me over the fact that I had pushed him a few days prior and said I should be backeracted.

3) Today While trying to fix the shredder which had paper jammed I was talking to it COME ON COME ON! etc. Mom said :IF YOU DON'T STOP I'M CALLING THE POLICE TO HAVE YOU PUT IN THE PSYCH WARD!! !! !!


SHEESH! Guys It's not like I cut myself or put a gun to my head or threaten suicide although with the HELL I go through I've made topics of the thought crossing my mind BUT I'D NEVER DO IT! I have to much to hope for! I want to go to college and succeed I don't want to end my life and in turn my dreams and goals. :-(



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22 Aug 2010, 12:10 pm

I can see your predicament. When dealing with people, there are a few things you need to keep in mind:

1. Other people are crazy.
2. Other people have trouble understanding the effects and values of words they use.
3. Other people think they know what they're talking about, but they don't.
4. Other people are stupid, you're better than them.

Remembering these rules is excellent for your self-esteem, confidence, and will hopefully allow you go through life with less frustration.



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22 Aug 2010, 12:25 pm

This "backeracted" word is a new one for me.


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22 Aug 2010, 12:33 pm

dyingofpoetry wrote:
This "backeracted" word is a new one for me.



Not sure if it's the correct spelling but backer-acted or however it's spelt is to be put in a psych ward,institutionalized that type of thing



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22 Aug 2010, 12:35 pm

Michael_Stuart wrote:
I can see your predicament. When dealing with people, there are a few things you need to keep in mind:

1. Other people are crazy.
2. Other people have trouble understanding the effects and values of words they use.
3. Other people think they know what they're talking about, but they don't.
4. Other people are stupid, you're better than them.

Remembering these rules is excellent for your self-esteem, confidence, and will hopefully allow you go through life with less frustration.



Thank You! :-) I have a hard time with this since YES what you listed makes since but they ARE YOUR PARENTS! Perhaps what they say is true and you aren't any good YOU should go to a psych ward YOU are rude YOU are a b***h etc. etc.



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22 Aug 2010, 1:20 pm

dyingofpoetry wrote:
This "backeracted" word is a new one for me.


Here "sectioned" is the term for involuntary psychiatric confinement, after Section Two of the 1983 Mental Health Act, but most people say "you should be locked up".



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22 Aug 2010, 1:30 pm

Sounds like your parents have gotten very bad and I would try and get out of there quick. I hope you can move out soon. Maybe get room mates or maybe see if you can live with your sister. She isn't bad as them right?

If I were you, I would go into silent treatment so that way they won't get upset with what you say since you be quiet.



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22 Aug 2010, 1:33 pm

Great IDEA! Silence! I love IT!! !



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22 Aug 2010, 1:39 pm

One thing I have done in the past is
to just give up on things that frustrate
me.

I jusat dropt it and said "too hard can'tg do it"
so i wood not have anything to have a reactions
to.

paper jam in the foffice? I just dropt it on the
desk and said "too hard can't do it"

door won't close? I walked away and said
"too hard can't do it"

that way, I did not have reactions and maybe
this will send a message, if peple have a problem
with the eway you react, they should open their
eyes and quit doing things that make you ha ve
reactions or shut their mouths.


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22 Aug 2010, 1:40 pm

Baker Act, or involuntary committed to a mental institution, wow that's terrible zelda, that is cruel
I would take League Girls advice and give them the silent treatment



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22 Aug 2010, 1:49 pm

yeah just be totally cold and quiet and disengaged.

Good luck moving out soon, they sound terrible.


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22 Aug 2010, 1:55 pm

See http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt77234.html for some information on how to beat the Baker Act. As far as I know, the Baker Act cannot be used for autism or any other developmental disability.


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22 Aug 2010, 2:01 pm

Just Googled Baker-Acting. Here's some more info:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Florida_Mental_Health_Act



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22 Aug 2010, 5:06 pm

You should move out, as soon as possible.


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22 Aug 2010, 5:11 pm

I've been backer acted by my parents. Yep and I still live with them.


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22 Aug 2010, 5:16 pm

I've just prayed for you, and your safety.


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