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No matter if they say I have aspergers or not, I fall on the non-neurotypical scale really hardcore, and have already been diagnosed with a horde of disorders to say so. When I think of how little NT people think of the world and how little they try to invest themselves into knowledge, I feel sorry for them, and always have before I even knew a lot about ASD!
NTs often center around people; their lives are defined by who they know instead of what they know or what they do. So you could have an NT who knows very little and hasn't achieved very much, but who is very happy with his life because he has good friends and a stable family. Maybe an Aspie in that situation would be bored and go seek out the nearest library post-haste, but NTs often have different priorities, especially if they aren't nerdy NTs. They're just wired to connect with other people.
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I wish my friend could be cured. She probably has a PDD but she is also HYPER social and she is terrified of being alone and alone she feels life is useless, she needs company all the time.
I wish she could be cured from that. She suffers from not having enough company. She doesn't know what to do on her own.
Unlucky for her she has a non social AS for bestest human buddy... LOL.
I've met some people with borderline personality disorder who had that problem--who felt empty and useless when they weren't with someone, either in a relationship or physically with another person. It didn't sound very nice to me at all. I like solitude, and not being able to take advantage of it sounds horrible.