So this sensitivity is an aspie thing? When I used to go to malls (had kids to buy for, so I had to) I had to avoid many stores for fragrance reason. I too can't understand how some people think these smells are a good thing, and in the last ten years or so, overuse of personal fragrances has become so common. The last job I had (waitress, small town) this one woman who just thought she was so above everyone wore this stuff that you could smell from across the room, and it was like bug spray mixed with pine cleaner.
Once, years ago, was in an elevator at work (big office building), woman got on, positively reeked, thought I was going to pass out, got off the elevator with a co worker, and I said (blurted out) "guess Clinique had a give away". We were not in ear shot of the woman wearing all that crap, but my co worker was shocked, like it was the most rude thing to say, and I couldn't believe she was ok with having to breath in all that stuff.
I think there ought to be perfume police giving out fines! Woman at the grocery store the other day sure needed someone to let her know.
Many years ago, while looking for a job, was called by a woman who wanted me to come in for an interview, but gave me a long list of "don'ts", no perfumes, powers, fruity shampoos or hair products, no denim (denim dresses and jumpers were big at the time), and there was more, but I can't remember all of it. Said the boss had "allergies" (to DENIM???), maybe he was an aspie!