anyone wanna help annoy a former bully?

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Ravenclawgurl
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15 Sep 2010, 10:03 pm

my former bully has a formspring i am so tempted to put the web address here so people can bombard him with messages. im not so sure if i should any one know how to send a computer virus? lol nah thats going too far dont do that do you you think i should put his formspring up here though ?

if enough people say i should maybe i will but i want ur opinions on it. should i put it here or not?



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15 Sep 2010, 10:06 pm

What kind of weapons is she using to terrorise you?

Can you block her from your world?

If she is useing words I'd call her a dirty old poopyhole
and if she is in person I'd just hock a loogy on her
and throw rotten potatos at her and make her
go away.

Wgatever it takes to defend yourself.

If she does something aginst the law then
you can call the cops on her.


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15 Sep 2010, 10:14 pm

technically He is out of my life already except for during flashbacks i sometimes get oh and the effects he has caused me.

it is from 8th grade 7 years ago (it doesnt seem like 7 years though) He basically made my life hell both through verbal bullying making me feel like s**t and physical bullying in some instances he also encouraged other in bullying me he was popular among the girls so the girls joined in in bullying me even more. its just sometimes i want revenge should i put his formspring for people to spam?



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15 Sep 2010, 10:16 pm

I have done these sort of stuff and I dunno when was the last time I have done it. I stopped sending people after my enemies when I was 21. Last time I did it was in 2007. But if my friends offer to go after someone or want to, I don't care.

I would refrain from sending computer viruses because it's illegal. I don't know how to make them or send one and I wouldn't even want to learn how. Funny thing, I have been accused of it once and my ex stalker thought I also put one on his computer and asked me if I did it or not.


EDIT: Whoa baby, this is a grudge you're holding?

So he hasn't bothered you since 7th or 8th grade and you still want to get back at him? I say it's not worth it. Let it go.



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15 Sep 2010, 10:22 pm

You don't need our help. Go tell the whole word how you feel, so everyone knows what part of you to love.



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15 Sep 2010, 10:34 pm

As tempting as it may be, it's a bad idea. As hard as it is to do, take the high road.



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15 Sep 2010, 11:20 pm

I wonder if treating yourself to something you
feel you need to fix the damage he did would
work?

I have found that one thing that helps fix the
damage done to me is getting free or cheap
stuff/parts that they owe me, its on their
taxes I figure so it is my medicine every time
I have bad flashbacks.

I was badly abused by miss behan back in 1981,
and when I have flashbacks, I got by something
that will help fix the damage, or sometimes, I just
look at all the stuff I have, and think "thanks beanhatch,
for all the good stuff you owe me." She is a big part of
the reason I am disabled, there are others who
disabled me further in life. But with a little therapy
that can be had at the local parts store, I can take
my medicine again.


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16 Sep 2010, 12:41 am

Yeah, just forget about it. It's too long ago.

Although I might not be one to speak since one of my roommates last year was an egotistical jerk who bullied others. Even after talking to him one-on-one numerous times to try to get him to stop, he wouldn't.

So for revenge, I used his toothbrush to clean the toilet, poured toilet water in his mouthwash, spat into his shampoo every morning, poured lab bacteria in his food, poured water into his $600 LCD TV, super glued his GameCube controllers shut, stole money from his secret hiding spots (he would hide them in his shoes lol), keyed his car, and shoved him against the wall while threatening to mess him up.

Now, he's scared of me and literally runs away anytime he sees me. I guess I'm not a very nice guy either but this guy really was a cocky douchebag with Napoleon Complex (his name was also David, therefore, since everyone was taller than him, he felt the need to take on this entire world of Goliaths). I guess this makes him sound more pathetic then cruel. In the end, though, he was the biggest coward because he refused to acknowledge himself even after I tried telling him to stop for his own good.

My actions don't make me any better but at least I gave him some justice for all the cruel injustice he caused for other people.



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16 Sep 2010, 12:44 am

While it might be tempting to start a reign of terror in which past tormentors start to shake with fear, not know ing if they would be next.

I would strongly advise you not to try to wage war on those who have wronged you in the way that the OP was considering. The problem is that cops and other people might make your life very hard if you seek revenge through violence or computer crimes.


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18 Sep 2010, 10:02 am

Ravenclawgurl wrote:
my former bully


Your former bully probably has more ideas than you, and less scruples about using them. There is absolutely nothing to be gained from interacting with a bully, and everything to be gained from excising him from your life completely. Without even thinking of the worst possible outcome, there is every possibility of reviving in you all the worst thoughts that he ever caused you in the past.



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18 Sep 2010, 10:24 am

Im in lol



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18 Sep 2010, 11:08 am

Make sure you're not logged into your Formspring account, maybe use some proxies, then just write a list of stuff in a text document and paste each one into a message and send them one by one. The bully will never know it's you.



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18 Sep 2010, 12:48 pm

I agree with the people who said "don't bother". Seven years is too long to get revenge for something; by now the bully may be more mature, in which case you wouldn't need to get revenge, or the bully may have continued on the same course, in which case they are now much better at tormenting people than they were before, and would go to lengths you wouldn't if you annoyed them. So just stay far, far away. Let them have their life, and you live yours.


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18 Sep 2010, 12:54 pm

Let it go? also you shouldn't document your premeditated harassment.



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18 Sep 2010, 1:08 pm

I actually would prefer to help if it were a little less malignant than to send a virus. First off, I'm not a computer person and wouldn't be able to help doing this. Secondly, if I were, they would have had to do something beyond the accusations of a sod that I'm above mentioning the name of to the extent of what my dA troll did. I'm up to odd lines of questioning, but that's it.



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18 Sep 2010, 1:16 pm

Bad idea. Remember the mother who cyber harassed one of her daughter's friends , who then killed herself?

That woman was indicted for murder.


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