DW_a_mom wrote:
Still, it all begs the question of how important the diagnosis will be for you, what you want to accomplish by completing the process, and how much you are willing to spend in the way of time and money to pursue it. For some people, it is an important way to close out questions they've had all their lives
As far as I can tell (I'm not super clear on my motives, as I said) this is closest to how I'm feeling about it.
DW_a_mom wrote:
And others, are quite happy making that decision about themselves and for themselves, without having anyone else get involved at all.
I have nowhere near that level of self-confidence. Wish I did, but I need external affirmation. Otherwise, it will always be a huge question mark.
DW_a_mom wrote:
We don't know what all the potential negative effects of getting it added to your medical history are, so that is a consideration, as well.
A big one for me, actually. I'm reasonably comfortable with medical confidentiality (key word "reasonably"). It's insurance that really creeps me out. That's sort of why I don't even want to run this by my health insurance company. Save a couple thousand dollars now only to find out that no one will insure me at some point in the future
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