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02 Nov 2010, 3:56 pm

Are all aspies and geeks emotional punching bags for the normal NT?

Have you ever heard of an experience with an aspie being sucessful? and not bullied and harassed?

Even Stephen Spielberg said one of the first people he made an actor before that this actor was his bully and gave him a bloody nose every other day at school, they became pals tho after Stephen asked him to be an actor in one of his first films.



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02 Nov 2010, 4:02 pm

i have never been bullied


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02 Nov 2010, 4:04 pm

ive turned bullies into punching bags and ended up getting a few to respect me and s**t. You just gotta learn to stand up for yerself, sometimes you have to carry around and know how to properly use a big stick :D


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02 Nov 2010, 4:09 pm

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ive turned bullies into punching bags and ended up getting a few to respect me and sh**. You just gotta learn to stand up for yerself, sometimes you have to carry around and know how to properly use a big stick :D


you shouldent beat bullies, violence is not the answer



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02 Nov 2010, 4:21 pm

why shoulden't you beat bullies? who says violence is not the answer.

if a bully is scared of you because he knows you are capable of inflicting more damage on him than he is capable of inflicting on you, he won't harm you. if you tell him that if you hear of them bullying anyone will cause you to inflict pain on him again, he won't bully people. your infliction of pain on him will prevent infliction of pain on innocents. what is wrong with that?


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02 Nov 2010, 4:24 pm

wormsto wrote:
why shoulden't you beat bullies? who says violence is not the answer.

if a bully is scared of you because he knows you are capable of inflicting more damage on him than he is capable of inflicting on you, he won't harm you. if you tell him that if you hear of them bullying anyone will cause you to inflict pain on him again, he won't bully people. your infliction of pain on him will prevent infliction of pain on innocents. what is wrong with that?


ITS JUST WRONG OK! its not moral



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02 Nov 2010, 4:26 pm

Corp900 wrote:
wormsto wrote:
why shoulden't you beat bullies? who says violence is not the answer.

if a bully is scared of you because he knows you are capable of inflicting more damage on him than he is capable of inflicting on you, he won't harm you. if you tell him that if you hear of them bullying anyone will cause you to inflict pain on him again, he won't bully people. your infliction of pain on him will prevent infliction of pain on innocents. what is wrong with that?


ITS JUST WRONG OK! its not moral


So if a bully punches me I can't punch him back?



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02 Nov 2010, 4:37 pm

Corp900 wrote:
wormsto wrote:
why shoulden't you beat bullies? who says violence is not the answer.

if a bully is scared of you because he knows you are capable of inflicting more damage on him than he is capable of inflicting on you, he won't harm you. if you tell him that if you hear of them bullying anyone will cause you to inflict pain on him again, he won't bully people. your infliction of pain on him will prevent infliction of pain on innocents. what is wrong with that?


ITS JUST WRONG OK! its not moral

Who was accusing who of being illogical in another thread?

Morality is not universal, what is morally abhorent to you is morally acceptable to another.



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02 Nov 2010, 4:41 pm

Lecks wrote:
Corp900 wrote:
wormsto wrote:
why shoulden't you beat bullies? who says violence is not the answer.

if a bully is scared of you because he knows you are capable of inflicting more damage on him than he is capable of inflicting on you, he won't harm you. if you tell him that if you hear of them bullying anyone will cause you to inflict pain on him again, he won't bully people. your infliction of pain on him will prevent infliction of pain on innocents. what is wrong with that?


ITS JUST WRONG OK! its not moral

Who was accusing who of being illogical in another thread?

Morality is not universal, what is morally abhorent to you is morally acceptable to another.



siiiiggghh .... here we go again



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02 Nov 2010, 5:10 pm

Corp900 wrote:
Lecks wrote:
Corp900 wrote:
wormsto wrote:
why shoulden't you beat bullies? who says violence is not the answer.

if a bully is scared of you because he knows you are capable of inflicting more damage on him than he is capable of inflicting on you, he won't harm you. if you tell him that if you hear of them bullying anyone will cause you to inflict pain on him again, he won't bully people. your infliction of pain on him will prevent infliction of pain on innocents. what is wrong with that?


ITS JUST WRONG OK! its not moral

Who was accusing who of being illogical in another thread?

Morality is not universal, what is morally abhorent to you is morally acceptable to another.



siiiiggghh .... here we go again

You seem to be very anxious to click that "post" button before you've actually finished typing a complete response.

Would you care to explain what you're talking about there? Do you have issue with my comment concerning the apparent lack of logic in your post or with my comment about morality?



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02 Nov 2010, 5:15 pm

Corp900 wrote:
DemonAbyss10 wrote:
ive turned bullies into punching bags and ended up getting a few to respect me and sh**. You just gotta learn to stand up for yerself, sometimes you have to carry around and know how to properly use a big stick :D


you shouldent beat bullies, violence is not the answer

And you play Mortal Kombat. How ironic. :roll:

Sometimes, you just gotta put your foot down. Even if you end up losing, if you need to use physical contact to get your point across, so be it - to some people it's the only way.



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02 Nov 2010, 5:24 pm

Sometimes bullies need a taste of their own medicine. Violence seems to be the only language they speak.


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02 Nov 2010, 5:30 pm

Corp900 wrote:
Lecks wrote:
Corp900 wrote:
wormsto wrote:
why shoulden't you beat bullies? who says violence is not the answer.

if a bully is scared of you because he knows you are capable of inflicting more damage on him than he is capable of inflicting on you, he won't harm you. if you tell him that if you hear of them bullying anyone will cause you to inflict pain on him again, he won't bully people. your infliction of pain on him will prevent infliction of pain on innocents. what is wrong with that?


ITS JUST WRONG OK! its not moral

Who was accusing who of being illogical in another thread?

Morality is not universal, what is morally abhorent to you is morally acceptable to another.



siiiiggghh .... here we go again


Violence usually isn't the answer it should only be a last resort. However, there are times when you actually should punch their lights out. I had a situation in 8th grade where I was attacked and I ended up decking the individual. The principal didn't give me any punishment because the other kid admitted he attacked me and the other kid got in school suspension. I feel bad the other kid got put up to it by some other students, but seriously if you're being attacked it is morally okay to fight back.



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02 Nov 2010, 5:36 pm

Yes, I've been bullied before, and it was hectic times for me. If I get bullied, I use the less violent way, and tell the councilor or someone with control, and I let them take care of it.

I believe violence isn't the answer either, but there's times where you have to "bend" your ethics a bit, and teach them a lesson. Actually, even one person from the wrestling team said that I "can fight better than the rest of them," and he kind of feared me.



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02 Nov 2010, 5:40 pm

DemonAbyss10 wrote:
ive turned bullies into punching bags and ended up getting a few to respect me and sh**. You just gotta learn to stand up for yerself, sometimes you have to carry around and know how to properly use a big stick :D


I did the same but as soon as one bully became afraid of me, I would make a new bully.


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02 Nov 2010, 5:53 pm

Corp900 wrote:
DemonAbyss10 wrote:
ive turned bullies into punching bags and ended up getting a few to respect me and sh**. You just gotta learn to stand up for yerself, sometimes you have to carry around and know how to properly use a big stick :D


you shouldent beat bullies, violence is not the answer


I wasn't bullied PHYSICALLY a lot, because I was big and strong. My bullies knew it, so they prefered to tease me and destroy my things.
So sometimess violence works. I wouldn't be bullied if the teachers supported me, but they prefered the bullies and allowed them to bully me.


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