I think some parents will believe anything that makes it not their fault. My mom whose favorite word I swear used to be "cop-out" (if that's a word) is happy to accept the idea that I have AS (which I am not diagnosed with and may not in fact have) on my sister's suggestion. The woman hardly spent any time with me one-on-one as a child until I started having trouble in school, told me not to bother people every time I wanted to do something nice for someone, was always disappointed with anything I gave her as a present, and spent most of her time yelling at my older siblings, but I have AS, that's why I have no tact. I'm sure I'd have allergies too, even though I don't, if she thought that was the cause.
I am allergic to people. Also to sweeping generalizations.
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