kfisherx wrote:
wavefreak58 wrote:
...This is what's wrong with the calculus of disability. If you aren't drooling on yourself and sleeping in your feces, you have to suck it up, quit feeling sorry for yourself and get on with your life.
No.
I'm not bitter.
So how is this different for ANY person alive who has any sort of issue? I mean at what point do we stop the excuses (being bitter) and start taking responsibility?
The bitterness comes from the fact that I have NOT made excuses and HAVE taken responsibility, but am still judged to be inadequate and a failure by many standards.
This is not different from anyone that has issues that impede their lives.
And I'm not constantly bitter, I'm just human enough that I can't escape the negative feelings all the time. I usually turn the bitterness in to a stubborn refusal to give up. I shake my fist at the world and scream "I'll show you all, mother f*****s!! !". Then I calm down and get on with it.
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