Adamantus wrote:
I've also heard stories of people who have soft toys and need them to function who are adults.
I am one of these people. I wish my parents didn't make such a big deal about my need to bring my Timon and Pumbaa plushies with me everywhere as a kid. They always tried to talk me out of bringing them with me and were so worried I would be carrying them around at 15. Why is that such a big deal? I need to hug my Timon plushie when I'm in the midst of a meltdown or just having a bad day. I've slept with him for years and still do. I actualy need him in order to fall alseep. No, I don't have sex with him. The thought of that is just gross. If Timon were real, I still wouldn't want to have sex with him. I think if something were to happen to him I would have a nervous break down or my personality would split. I plan to be burried with him.
Adamantus wrote:
You don't need to feel bad about having obsessions, a lot of aspies do have them. I have a friend who is a big fan of Thomas the Tank engine and he's at least 30. I've also heard stories of people who have soft toys and need them to function who are adults. These people can still work if they have a supportive environment. Basically you can like anything you want and don't be ashamed of it. If people don't understand or are ignorant then just explain that you have Aspergers and it's common to have special interests in certain things.
I also think the guy in those videos is taking things way too seriously. He's talking about Sonic the Hedgehog like a psychologist and using words like "fantards" whatever that means as though they are real words. Don't listen to these people.
I've learned from expirence that NT's don't understand special intrests. I could explain until the cows come home and I am still supposedly a "fantard" or I have a fetish. I'm not ashamed of my special intrests, I just wonder if the people this person is describing have AS. I had to deal with these people all the time as a kid in real life so I'm actualy fairly used to this mindset.
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