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Okay a while back I said I've never had a female friend before. Well the girl at college who I could sort of say I began a friendship with back in September has contacted me on Facebook, after us not actually speaking since October. We got chatting and it was fine .

I feel really bad about this huge gap between contact because my general fear of girls stopped me from trying to talk to her, if that makes sense. Actually, heck, it doesn't even to me . But then what does in my life? And also I can only really talk to people well online; like I said, I haven't spoken to her (in real life or online) since October.

I know really there was no reason to stop talking to her, I don't know, it just sort of happened, no talking at all for months . Should I start talking to her the next time I'm in college? Or at least attempt to say whatever I can think of? (since I'm scared out of my brain talking to girls) And if so, what should I say? Or would it be weird to suddenly speak after not speaking for months?

Ah, I've confused myself again 8O

Anyways, I would just love to gain a proper friendship with an actual female . And not for the sake of it either, it could help me with my life, somehow... Can anyone help please?

i say talk to here, as to what you should say i have absolutely no idea