WHY would people CRAM? I mean do families REALLY PUSH to have 3+ kids?
BTW I knew a family with 9 kids! The first was born YEARS before the others. The rest were born rather quickly. I believe there were 8 pregnancies, as 2 were twins. BTW most were boys, the twins were boys, and the first one was a girl. NONE appeared autistic.
Unplanned is yet ANOTHER word people liked and misappropriated. If you have a kid, that you didn't want to have, then it is called unplanned. Never mind that you went through an act that often has at least a 3% chance of pregnancy even WITH "birth control". Condoms are 97% reliable. EVEN the PILL has failed more than a few times. Vasectomies can fail. And a woman generally only has about a 16% chance of getting pregnant, if she has sex every day, without birth control.
It is amazing how people can have unprotected sex, get pregnant, and say "But it was ONLY ONE time!". One time is ALL it takes. It is the time of the month that makes it less likely, but THAT can change too.
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