I think you should have used "Cause" instead of reason. Sorry, anyways, to answer your question. I think ignorance from everyone, and impatience. People tell me I'm smart, yet and try some heroic scheme to try and intervene to encourage my germination from cysalids-seed mode. Without bothering to examin my inner world which is a highly advanced civilization (some imaginary world I inhabit to slowly evaluate and manage the chaos around me. (living in China, among very angry Chinese, quick tempered Chinese, and illmannered Chinese, or ignorant people from the 80s). Those who truly know me, don't know me at all, they see a clumsy 35 year old, clumsy, sterotypical nerd. My dad's wife, is psychotic, and whenever she explodes in tulumous temper as my dad mismanages money, or has come back from a business meeting, (which he has to use money). She usually sees me as some kind of scapegoat. No amount of money can placate her temper. She was born to complain.
She often uses this low blow that am I not or not embaressed that I'm 35 and still living with my dad. Well no S. I just came to China! And I'm very very very very sorry I did. very sorry I did.
but most people, coworkers, foreigner bosses in which intollerance for people with disorders is the Norm. I loved the Muslim boss who asked me "What's wrong with your head". His Allah is going to punish him. Muslims are NOT allowed to critisize another human as they are insulting the Masterpiece that is Allah's creation (everyone) to do so, is the most henious of ALL crimes, including stealing (cutting off hands punishment), that is to think you know better than Allah the all knowing, all mighty, (and the other thousands of inadqeuate human terms that doesn't do his impeccable perfection justice) to say that you're ugly, or you're stupid, is to commit Sherik. The human taking on the mantel of God.
I like the other muslim boss Wassim. He said the problem with you is that you don't think. Without knowing all knowledge and with Aspergers that I decode information not as he has. Again,he comes from an old and cultured society. The more older they are, the more intollerant they are. I live in China...