What is it about me that pisses people off so much?

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One of them even went as far as saying that murdering me would be considered a mercy killing. Aparently none of them realise there is no age limit for vet school. What did I ever do that pissed them off so much?

With all due respect, you have an attitude which reminds me of a bulldyke. I wish I had examples in mind but I don't. I might look around for some in a little bit.

TBH you have said some things here that disturbed me. One of them is wanting to talk about your interests all the time and if people don't want to hear it, they are not your true friend. No one wants to hear the same things over and over and even aspies don't want to hear the same things over and over just like any other NT. I can imagine saying that over there might piss them off and make them want to target you.

To answer your other question, you posted a thread on the other forum asking about vet school or whatever (I don't feel like going over there right now to look at that thread for clear details what it was exactly about) and they gave you honest answers and you didn't like them and you said if you couldn't be a vet you don't want to be anything else. I remember they made very good points like how are you going to be a vet with a bearded dragon with you? You can't have him with you in the room when you take care of animals. And you have to work on social skills to work with people so you do better with them since vets also have to deal with people and it does take people skills to do it. I assume that's what they are on you about. I also remember being in that Catfight thread trying to stick up for you because they didn't seem to know the difference between accommodations and special treatment regarding school and they were also pissed about that.


Fact is I would try and move on beyond this and they do this to everyone, I have noticed it seems like every time they b***h about a MLPA member, it's always a member who has a disability. Coincidence or they get pissed off by people who have disabilities because they have things about themselves others find annoying. I haven't even asked that yet over there and haven't been there in months. It was maybe June when I was last there. Well I was just there today after clicking the link.


Is bulldyke a bad thing pistonhead? I just looked that word up and there didn't seem to be anything wrong with it.

I'm using it as a comparison, it's just the attitude that they have. I have nothing against masculine women even of the lesbian variety so long as they don't have the associated attitude. The attitude is just ridiculously offensive.

I've now checked out 9 pages of the topic and I'd say about 2/3s of them have crossed the line on what is fair criticism and what is just being an as*hole. Griffinthecat for example seems to be fairly in the right on the page I'm on for example.

The nature of the Aspie is that no matter what an Aspie says it is subjected to ridicule even when other NTs can relate. One thing I find hypocritically disturbing is that many NTs like to brag about how "crazy" they are, yet they're constantly mocking and ridiculing the very ones who really do have problems. Bleepin' hypocrites I say.

I find that it's not worth it to brag about anything because they just throw it back at you in the worst ways possible. I always thought I was fine saying this or that about myself to friends or classmates only to have to them rip on me and make cruel jokes about it for the remainder of my life.

It sucks but in the end, you've got to be careful about what you say to people about yourself, even if you do feel comfortable sharing it. If you share a certain disturbing aspects of your character (like saying "I have depression" and all) you'll find that a lot of people will rather mock and tease you about it than be sympathetic. It's part of living in the idiotic society of NTs who believe in the motto "Everyone's a joke but me!"

Alright I got around to digging for an example of what is repulsive about your attitude

"The furry community seems as if one big joke. Why do furries draw pictures of female animals with breasts in the same placement as humans? Horses DO NOT have hands. If you want to have a horse hold an object, give it extra wrist strength."

The problem here is
1. The furry community does whatever it wants
2. Just because you don't like drawing human boobs on other animals doesn't mean other people can't
3. You aren't the only person on earth who knows horse anatomy, maybe people would rather draw their fantasy horse instead of your realistic one

You *EXPECT* everyone to *ACCEPT* YOUR interests but you REJECT theirs and then they reject you and your interests and here you are wondering why. You are just too pushy with your point of view in almost every situation.

Ummmmm... where to start.

You have an all-or-nothing attitude (Black/White - typical in Aspies and very bad for being happy on this planet)
you say you don't need friends, s**t upon everyone and then wonder why people don't like you (which one is it?)

Determination is an attitude that takes you to a place of reason by setting real, achievable goals without stepping on people and then taking consistent action to acheive those goals

Being an a$$hat is setting unrealistic goals, talking about going somewhere instead of doing that thing (pissing people off because your mouth is going faster than your actions) stepping on whomever you have to in order to get to your goal, etc...

Let your actions speak for your determination.

No, you can express yourself but you need to RESPECT other people. I think obsessing over animals is stupid cause they eat, s**t, sleep and die and that's pretty much it. I normally don't run around telling the whole world ANIMALS ARE STUPID! I will say it here because maybe if you got a taste of your own medicine you'd understand how other people feel, but honestly I doubt it.

Also, I don't give a rats ass about Twilight, Celebrities or Sports. If people respect me they will avoid talking to me about these things. Harry Potter I can stand but there is a point when enough is enough (I really don't want to argue over whether Harry would have been better off casting rictusempra or expelliarmus in the fight with Voldemort). People who respect me will talk to me about cars, sex, music, computers, gaming, rollerblading, weightlifting, farming, or something else that I enjoy talking about.