Why do Iact so mentally weak/sensitive?

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18 Feb 2011, 8:15 pm

I am male and 17 with ASD/AS and I would like to know why am I so sensitive that my feelings can get hurt easily? I can cry very easily when someone makes fun of me and I am also extremely gullible that I let people walk all over me. I also am told that " I am so easy to pick on" or "You are such an easy target." I don't know what is wrong with me. I think I have some sort of problem but I don't know. I am also way to nice and never say no to people. I would like to know how can I say no more often? Am I the only one who is like this?



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18 Feb 2011, 10:09 pm

join the club. it seems we are both omega males. i am the same way despite being decades older. the only thing i could suggest, that you give the military a try. they will totally immerse you in meanness, and you will either survive and get tougher despite oneself, or bolo out. the only reason i didn't bolo out was that i had not choice, in that it was back to homelessness if i failed.



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18 Feb 2011, 11:07 pm

I prefer sensitive males over tough headed macho males.


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18 Feb 2011, 11:29 pm

CockneyRebel wrote:
I prefer sensitive males over tough headed macho males.


Can you think of any examples of this sensitive type that you prefer? A musician of some sort perhaps? :D



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19 Feb 2011, 1:15 am

i believe she is referring to beta males.



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19 Feb 2011, 2:04 am

No, you're not the only one.

In current western culture being like that isn't appreciated in males very much. Society seems to go out of it's way to crush anything soft in young guys.

Things for me got a little better after getting out of high school. High school seemed virtually designed to create the most toxic environment possible.

I don't get too much crap these days, but then I don't get out much. Not sure what made the difference.