I don't have aspergers, however from what I know not everyone has a super high iq, they can have average intelligence, my boyfriend who is a aspie likes social situations, he will still go out, likes to drink, have fun with his friends, but still finds it hard to show and share emotion and has trouble keeping relationships with people. He also gets obsessed over things that interest him, and nothing me or anyone else says is as important as what is on his mind, I think that's a pretty common aspie trait.