KBerg wrote:
Depends on the social situation. I mean lets be honest, as Aspies there's nothing quite as terrifying as that complete silence of everyone around you after you just said something you thought was a meaningful addition to the conversation. When the only thing you can hear is the traffic outside, the creak of the floor, even people's clothes rubbing against them. And you think, someone's got to say something... but the moment drags on into what seems like an eternity of growing horror until you are finally released by someone breaking the silence and the rest shutting you out of the conversation entirely. Which by now is almost a relief compared to that seemingly endless silence that came before it.
So I don't mind silence when there's just me and one other person, or just me. It's absolute silence in a crowd that I often find uncomfortable because of the association they tend to have for me.
Why is there no nodding emoticon? I need several hundred of them right now.. SO TRUE... I had a moment of guilty pleasure or something when I observed the phenomenon occur to someone else yesterday.. But I couldn't bring myself to break the silence in case it was then directed at myself *shudders*
As for silence in general.. I don't think I've ever experienced total silence but I go through phases when I crave it, but at other times I can't bloody stand it.. Seems to depend on my state of mind at the time.
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Your Aspie score: 155 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 57 of 200
You are very likely an Aspie