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SteelMaiden
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22 Feb 2011, 11:46 am

Does anyone else here talk to themselves? Is it common or not on the spectrum? Because I find myself muttering to myself multiple times a day.


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22 Feb 2011, 11:57 am

I do everyday too, alone and in public (I sometimes see people look at me and I stop, I feel like this) :oops:



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22 Feb 2011, 11:59 am

I think it's pretty common. I do it loudly when I'm alone. I talk to myself more than I talk to anyone else in the world. I'll do it in public occasionally, but only when something really bad is going on and I think I'm alone.



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22 Feb 2011, 12:21 pm

I tend to mutter, but usually only if I think of something that makes me anxious,then I have the tendency to just blurt something out, sometimes unrelated to the thought that made me feel anxious.



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22 Feb 2011, 12:26 pm

I only talk to myself when nobody else is around. Which does include when I'm outdoors.



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22 Feb 2011, 12:26 pm

This is not an AS trait, because some NT would do this also, but I'd say it's more common for people on the spectrum. I talk to myself a lot, but not out loud. Sometime yes, but most of the time I will ask and respond questions in my mind. It's a way to do some introspection and find solution to problem I might have.



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22 Feb 2011, 12:59 pm

I do talk to myself out loud and a lot but only when I'm on my own.



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22 Feb 2011, 1:24 pm

I do also in private, but I whisper it (mostly because I'm scared people will hear me!).

I conciously do it to 'vent' the things I wished I'd been able to say (or to try to resolve something that's worrying me), throughout my day; I mostly say very little, so being able to do this is quite cathartic.

I'm not really aware if I do it in public, but I have found myself stopping what I'm doing and having a 'sense' (and a feeling that my mouth has been moving in speech, if that makes sense!), that I have been speaking my thoughts out loud.
I really hope I don't do that, but my mind is constantly racing with words and thoughts that some of them must, surely slip out sometimes! :oops:



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22 Feb 2011, 1:50 pm

Yes. Gotten it under control lately, but used to alot.

Sometimes break out laughing at something funny that occurs to me when doing a boring task.



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22 Feb 2011, 3:16 pm

I talk to myself a lot, but I do it in the form of talking to imaginary friends and voicing their responses back to myself. When I was a child I used to do it everywhere, even in public, but now I only do it when I am alone.



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22 Feb 2011, 3:27 pm

Talking to myself is one way I think in words. Otherwise I just get into repeating the same thought over and over, or think in imagery - not that I dislike that, but sometimes I need to be able to refine my thoughts in ways I don't seem to be able to manage with imagery alone. I also find that while talking out loud and verbalizing my thoughts, my ability to visualize intensifies tremendously.

I also think it may be kind of stimmy.



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22 Feb 2011, 3:49 pm

Only in derision of and about myself alone or in public never caring who hears or what looks I get.



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22 Feb 2011, 4:20 pm

Yeah, I talk to myself. I also often read my emails and internet posts aloud as I type them if no one is around.

But more than saying things that make sense, I say things that don't make sense sometimes when I'm alone. For years Ive briefly wondered about it and then just shrugged and ignored it. I think some of these are phrases from movies. That might qualify as echolalia.



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22 Feb 2011, 7:53 pm

I talk to myself all the time. I do it at home, walking down the street or cleaning parking lots. I don't do it at my clubhouse or my parents home. That's the way that I like to work out my problems.


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22 Feb 2011, 7:59 pm

When I am alone I maintain a conversation with myself, often out loud, maybe 50% of the time. In groups I do not.



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22 Feb 2011, 9:03 pm

Yep, regularly, although it's a kind of muttered commentary on something I'm doing or about to do. A voice-over, maybe.
Not really bothered if anyone else hears it.

Verdandi wrote:
Talking to myself is one way I think in words.
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I also think it may be kind of stimmy.
Good points.


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