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Jamamiel
Emu Egg
Emu Egg

Joined: 14 Jul 2019
Age: 28
Gender: Male
Posts: 5

18 Jul 2019, 8:14 pm

I have to admit feeling very envious of those without mental challenges. Though I actually value my psychological makeup as being a unique asset and way of perceiving the world, it's quite not very conducive to making tons of social connections or romantic manifestations. It requires a higher level of patience knowing that I should have the good interpersonal things less frequently than others, though I trust that the quality of such things will make up for their lack of frequency.
The best cure for the envy is to care less, however I can't help but feel it sometimes and it is such an ugly emotion. It saps youth and poisons personality. Does anyone believe these feelings can be healthy and/or constructive in an aspect?



IstominFan
Veteran
Veteran

Joined: 25 Nov 2016
Age: 60
Gender: Female
Posts: 11,114
Location: Santa Maria, CA.

19 Jul 2019, 9:05 am

I don't have envy, but I believe if I had been a more normal person, I could have used one of my many interests in a more productive way.



Olivia_H
Snowy Owl
Snowy Owl

Joined: 4 Aug 2018
Gender: Female
Posts: 144
Location: USA

19 Jul 2019, 9:43 am

I used to feel quite envious that I couldn't take part in things, but the older I've got the more exhausted I've become and I no longer have the energy to be envious of people without mental challenges. I've found myself actually being happy for people rather than wishing I was more like them.