I can't sing or play a musical instrument - but after years of wondering why, I finally figured out what has held me back, and I suspect it is my AS in an odd twist. When I hear a song, I can't isolate the "notes" from the voice of the singer; the simplest way I can explain my problem is to ask you to imagine trying to read - if you were so hyper-aware of the tiny differences in letterforms that you not only noticed the twenty-six letters of the alphabet, but also felt that every single typeface was a different collection of letters. "A" in Arial would be a different letter to you than "A" in Times New Roman.
I'm that way, only with musical notes. Isolating the sound of a specific person's voice, or the tone of an instrument, from the note in order to understand what a note is has always eluded me. The same note played, say, on a guitar and on a piano will sound completely different to me. Weird, I know.
But I suspect it is weird in such a complex and unusual way, that it is somehow tied to my AS, to how I perceive things, or perhaps some defect in how I was taught that I am now to old to correct.
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AQ Test = 44 Aspie Quiz = 169 Aspie 33 NT EQ / SQ-R = Extreme Systematising
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Not all those who wander are lost.
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In the country of the blind, the one eyed man - would be diagnosed with a psychological disorder