Why?

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Have you ever heard the quote ''This can't be happening to me.''?Why?Why us?The majority of the people is totally normal(in brain and body)while we are in the minority of 5 percent who are different.Imagine this.Imagine me.Aspie,always home,alone,no relationship-never,even though i am 10/10 handsome for real,never had real friends even though i hanged out with others who treated me nice,not sure if they knew that i am different though.All i see is everybody out having lives,relationships,fun,even the unpopular ones while us?I know there are more important things in life but why?

idk man is a question answered in living not in words

"The hardest thing in this world, is to live in it."

At least some others have some pleasures while us?

try stimming and special interests those are fun aint they?

Well yeah,special interests,but why i can't i live a more normal life too?I am totally handsome and never had girlfriend or sex and i am 23.

dude just go get a hooker if you have a good career and ur n9ot ugly as f**k then some girl could like you. and u could always try aspie affection maybe u would like someone similar to u who shares ur experiances better.

I've never had sex, I'm 36 and I'm not bothered by that.

I think the key is finding an element of life that you enjoy, and focusing on it. That's what I have to do, or I seem to lose myself inside my head. Some days I spend all my time coloring, some days I spend all my time researching a specific topic (we're talking 8+ hours a day)...it just depends what is going to hit the spot that day. I used to, and still do at times, suffer from feelings of extreme guilt over this. I feel like I should be doing something else that's "worthwhile." My husband helped me see that all that matters is being happy, even if "none of the other kids are doing it."
Perhaps if you become knowledgable about an interest, or participate in something...you will meet someone with a common interest. That's as good a place as any to start looking for sex.