Thankyou all for your recommendations.
mox wrote:
I read Aspergers and Girls, but it was more geared for teens or for the parents of Aspie girls. I found very few chapters, as an adult myself, that helped me. I'm considering purchasing Aspergirls... what did you think of that book, if you don't mind my asking?
I found Aspergirls a bit of a revelation. But it was the first book I had read on Asperger's generally. Until then I had been reading mainly for interest. But Aspergirls had me nodding my head furiously at the quotes from women, and realising that I actually sounded exactly like most of them. It has chapters on reading and self taught skills, school, sensory overload, stimming, blame and guilt, gender roles and identity, puberty and mutism, relationships, friendships and socialising, higher education, employment, marriage, having children. And each chapter is broken up into sections - the main part of the chapter including quotes, a section for teens and a section for parents. Because there are quite a lot of chapters each one is shorter than I would have liked, but I still found it very interesting and relevant to me. Its not just a factual book, its also a sort of self-help book.
I will probably order the other two that have been recommended to me, and keep looking for more.