Find the nearest ASA or other Autism support center and ask for a referral to a psychologist or psychiatrist who specializes in Asperger's in ADULTS. Even if it means driving a long ways, it's better than getting an appointment with someone who may not even know what Asperger's is. Unfortunately, those people have Dr. in front of their name. Don't be afraid to ask questions about his/her qualifications. The evaluation process takes some time, you won't be diagnosed in an hour. At least, you shouldn't be.
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