Note: if a mod wants to put this in a different forum, I'm okay with it. I didn't know where to put this.
I've been wondering this for awhile and given that in last night's Parenthood (the tv show), Aspy child Max was revealed to be, as just about every autistic person in fiction ultimately is, a savant at math and science! Big surprise! I know Aspies with exceptional math/science skills DO EXIST, but I also know there are many who, like me, are terrible at these things. Now.....my question isn't why the media portrays us this way....the media is prone to stereotypes. I get that (though I am curious where these stereotypes come from...perhaps because the famous autistic people are always good at those things?). So here's my real question...
How can someone with Aspergers be good at math and/or technical things? I really don't understand it. First, let me describe my situation. I'm almost 28 and was only diagnosed with AS less than a year ago, BUT I was diagnosed with non-verbal learning disability (NVLD) as a child of ten or so. Back then, AS diagnoses simply weren't given. From the research I've done, most people with AS have NVLD, which makes mathematics difficult and leads to deficiencies in visual-spatial skills, AS WELL AS NON-VERBAL COMMUNICATIONS SKILLS. Even if an Aspy doesn't have NVLD, wouldn't the difficulty that virtually all Aspies have with non-verbal communication also make it difficult for them to learn math and science? These subjects, after all, involve a great deal of non-verbal learning. The person who can't read facial cues and body language will likely also have difficulty learning geometry or engineering because those are subjects that can't be taught purely in a verbal manner.
Sorry for the length. I know people are going to say "no two people with AS are alike" and THAT'S FINE, but I honestly don't understand how any Aspy could be good (much less a savant) at these things and I've laid out my reasons above, so please respond specifically to those.