Ilka wrote:
Genes are strongly related, but is not the only factor, 'cause people with AS can have NT kid and viceversa.
Genes don't necessarily mean that you are exactly the same as your parents.
Firstly, you may get a mutation, so that your genes are different to your parents, but your condition is still genetic.
Secondly, your parents may have "recessive" genes - genes that you don't see any effects for, but still they lurk in the parent. If both parents carry a recessive gene as well as a dominant gene, then some of the children will be different to the parents - e.g. two red flowers might produce a white flower if both red flowers carried a white-petal gene (recessive) as well as a red petal gene (dominant), but of course
most of their children will have red petals. So you can be carrying genes that you don't realise you have (e.g. a person who looks NT might still have some non-NT genes, or two medium-height parents may have some children who are short and some who are tall, as in my family).
Finally, genes can be switched on or off by other genes, by substances produced by the parents, and by environmental substances. For example, there are genes known to influence ADHD which are much more potent if the mother was smoking during pregnancy. This whole phenomenon of genes being switched on and off is called "epigenetics".
But mutations and recessive genes are entirely genetic phenomena that produce children who are different to their parents.