what are your worst experiences with bullying in school

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im asking because i know that in society, especially the social world of school, weakness and indifference makes you an easy victim to almost anyone, and aspies just happen to stick out from NTs, whether you like it or not. and because aspies dont make a lot of friends theyre pretty much defenseless to anyone who wants to make fun of them, like a country without an army vulnerable to a superpower, much less a third world country. but id also love to hear about an aspie wooping a bullys arse once in a while and let him no whos boss. so if you have been bullied, please share, and have you ever stood up to the bully/bullies/unjust society? more pleasure to hear about a bully being taught a lesson or two by an aspie wouldnt you say

Everyone has been bullied at some point in their lives, I have never heard of someone who has never been bullied

Well there are lots of examples of that in my life too many to list.

Too many to list

The two instances that stand out the most were when some of the other boys made a wooden paddle in shop class and named it the "bergy beater". They threatened to beat me with it but never did. The other time was when a bully was about to hit me and I put my hands up to protect myself and accidentally hit him in the face. He grabbed a crutch from someone and beat me with it. High school sucks.

They used to make fun of my low monotonous voice..

Only one experience really got to me. I was in the gym awkwardly trying to roller skate (I'm not terribly coordinated you see) and these older kids (maybe 13-14 ish) surrounded me roller blading in a circle around me and constantly taunting me and the teacher didn't do s***, hurts man. The bullying ended though, around the 2nd grade when some kid was badmouthing me and kicking me in the backs of my knees and punching me and I said f*** it and punched him so hard I think I broke his nose, I was never bullied again, even when I moved to an entirely different school in an entirely different state (probably on account of how large I am 6 ft 6 in and my emotionless face doesn't help =D). Just graduated from there too =D

"What are you looking at?"
"Stop staring at me!"
"Are you gay?"
"I promise I won't tell anyone, I just want to know if you're gay or not."
"Why are you so short?"
"You look like your 12 years old. What are you doing here, kid?"
"Why are you always smiling like that?"
"Don't you look at me like that, it's weird."
"OMFG you're so weird."
"You're such a nerd."
"Why don't you talk?"
"Dude, do you ever talk?"
"I just want to know, do you talk to your parents?"

What the hell do you think, dumbass?

When I was in primary school I had to do a book review in front of the class. The children bullied me incessantly prior to the speech because I stuttered when I was nervous. Unfortunately I wet myself out of fear but I was made to finish the review with urine flowing down my legs. The teacher made me continue. I was not allowed to leave the classroom and had to sit down in my urine soaked pants.

For about 6 months afterward I was the laughing stock of the school and even when I was in lower highschool student's made me remember that event.

I had a guy sitting behind me catch the back of my shirt on fire. All the teacher did was take the kids lighter away from him. He then yelled at me because he does not have trouble in his classroom until I show up. I was also kicked dorn a flight of stairs and the principal let the kid go because he said they should teach the special education students how to walk down the stairs. He did nothing until some girls from my art class made a big stink about it.

Besides random pushes and shoves in the hallway, the only physical bullying I ever encountered was a girl throwing a call full of pop at my head. That barely even bothers me now. The things that bother me are more trans and homophobic slurs and things about how I'm going to kill someone. (When I was in grade 11 my special interest was criminology, especially serial killers and I read a lot of books about them so people assumed I ...was one? For whatever reason, they thought I killed my parents.)

Obviously the most prevalent names I got called were spazz and loner. Spazz because I'm a very fidgety person when I'm nervous and sometimes I started rocking back and forth and stuff. Loner because in the last 2 years of high-school the only person I talked to was the librarian.

Too many to name but the ones that stand out the most was being attacked after school and one time someone pulled a bit of my hair out.
And as for the name calling I got called some nasty things like "Spastic" how I hate that vile word. another one was mentalcase. and when they found out I was going to leave and go to a special school they made the last weeks at school hell.