I'm not diagnosed, so I'm only trying to recollect what I will say to a professional on the planned appointment.
- I had/have problems with starting or keeping up a conversation
- I use/used language in unusual ways (repetitive speech, echolalia, making up my own words, etc.)
I still have stuttering and other similar issues with speech. I liked repetitive speech when I was a child. I tend to use expressions that are hard to understand for others.
- it took me longer to learn to take care of myself than most children take
My mother still washed my hair when I was well in my teenage years. She often had to remind me to actually wash myself, not only soak (which I liked to do for long). I had mild problems with clothing properly and clothing according to the season, tying the shoe lace.
As for pretend play, I can't recall properly, I must have played, but mostly I pretended to be an animal, not really an adult with some profession, eg. a teacher.
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Could you believe that a 6 yo child would sit on the toilet and after he had finished wait silently till his parents discover him and than he would ask them to wipe his heinie? I witnessed that. This child is selective mute, speaks very little, reads without any pressure or regular teaching from age 4 and writes from age 5, always prefers to play on his own. Draws very nicely, even won a prize. Could he be autistic?
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Another non-English speaking - DX'd at age 38
"Aut viam inveniam aut faciam." (Hannibal) - Latin for "I'll either find a way or make one."