notlurkingwell wrote:
I am ambidextrous.
Like you, I use different hands for different tasks. Ignore the person who told you to stop using both hands - just do what feels right.
I favor my right hand, but CAN write with my left, etc... I consider myself ambidextrous, even though it doesn't show all the time, or to an identical degree in both hands. That IS to be expected. Writing a west european, or many other languages, with your left hand is HARD, EVEN for left handers! THAT is why so many have problems with smudging and why there are at least TWO ways to write with the left hand. BTW that is not a slant at left handers. Arabic, Hebrew, and some other languages are JUST as hard for a right handed person, though left handers would find it easier.
Still, I am CONSTANTLY told that MOST people that are right handed do this or that with a certain hand, and I often switch. I may take my car keys in my right hand, and put them in my right pocket while taking my credit cards out with the left to pay for something, or may even toss the keys from my right to my left to open the door with my left. I am just as likely to do the opposite with the passenger door.
I am HORRIBLE at catching things, but when I throw them to myself, I do REALLY well. I may have missed 3 times in as many years, even though I may have caught things in such a way many thousands of times during the same 3 years.
So I don't know. If you see me write, or throw, you will figure I am right handed. Otherwise, you will have a hard time.
BTW DON'T favor one side, if you can avoid it. It helps balance things out if you don't. As for your brain getting mixed up? Well, you might find you do more with less conscious thought! What is so bad about that!?