For all who were caught in the drama

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06 Sep 2011, 8:20 pm

I tried to leave wrong planet. I logged out, deleted it from my address bar, and was planning on staying away for a good while. It didn't work. This place has somehow wormed its way into my routine, and I can't seem to get rid of it!

Anyway, there has been a lot of tension around here lately, and that is partly my fault. I have already privately contacted the two other people involved, but I thought I would post this here for others who had to suffer through the tension.

As I said to them, I truly felt like I was being provoked. (I promise, I will never purposely try to cause tension.) But since I misinterpret so many things, I very well could have thought certain people were picking on me far more than they actually intended to. I can get very heated when being defensive. That is not what I am like most of the time, but I guess it is not a pretty sight when you get to witness it.

Anyway, I am publicly sending out my apologies for my part in helping to bring quite a bit of tension to these boards in the past few weeks.

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06 Sep 2011, 8:25 pm

I enjoy your posts, LittleLily. I hope you will stay.

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06 Sep 2011, 8:50 pm

By all means, stay.

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07 Sep 2011, 12:00 am

Tension? Where?
I missed another one. But that's fine because I don't like tension.

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07 Sep 2011, 12:15 am

littlelily613 wrote:

I wouldnt worry about getting in an argument. It is a very argumentative place. Everyone gets into arguments here. People have pretty much forgotton about it all in a week anyway and then they are onto the next argument.

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07 Sep 2011, 12:19 am

I hope I wasn't part of it. We have been in a couple of discussions so I am not sure if you view those as arguments or attacks.

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07 Sep 2011, 12:32 am

League_Girl wrote:

I hope I wasn't part of it. We have been in a couple of discussions so I am not sure if you view those as arguments or attacks.

Nope, it wasn't you at all. We've had a few disagreements, but nothing major as far as I'm concerned.

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07 Sep 2011, 12:34 am

littlelily613 wrote:

League_Girl wrote:

I hope I wasn't part of it. We have been in a couple of discussions so I am not sure if you view those as arguments or attacks.

Nope, it wasn't you at all. We've had a few disagreements, but nothing major as far as I'm concerned.

Good.

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07 Sep 2011, 1:25 am

I seem to accidently walk into arguments! You're okay, stay here please

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07 Sep 2011, 1:37 am

no worries, we are a family of more then 50,000 members, it's sort of hard not step on someones toes every once in a while

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07 Sep 2011, 1:40 am

zen_mistress wrote:

littlelily613 wrote:

unless its in the warzone known as PPR, it sometimes seems some bitter rivalries and hardened foes and loose alliances come and go but the arguments are not forgotten.

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