emp wrote:
Callista wrote:
Ummm... so you're not supposed to clean people's stuff without asking them?
It is not a case of "not supposed to". It is just that a substantial percentage of people will dislike it if you clean or organize some place or vehicle of theirs without obtaining their consent first.
Some people will also feel violated because for example, in the case of cleaning/organizing a house, it means you must have looked through their draws and cupboards etc in the process of determining where to put things.
Personally, I'd freak out because stuff wouldn't be in the exact same place I left it, and some stuff that I'd like to keep might be considered trash.
My grandma does this every time she somes to my house, and I always get very close to a nervous breakdown.
But those are probably just aspie reasons.