I, too, hear mostly just the music, although I do know a few songs all the way through. I usually know just a line or two of the songs. This is annoying most of the time, except when I don't like the lyrics that I can remember for a particular song. Most of the time I have to satisfy myself with humming along, but in the car I will sometimes sing some of the few songs I do know. It's either that or silence in the car, as I can't get many radio stations in my area. Bummer. Lately, I have been having trouble getting a couple of stations I do get and do like, for some reason. Perhaps it is due to the current solar storm we have been having.
According to your survey, the biggest percent of us have this problem registering the lyrics when we listen to music. I wonder why that is? This might be worth a scientific follow-up by the brain researchers who study Autism and Aspergers.
Since I figured out that I had Asperger's Syndrome, I have been making more and more sense out of all of the things that are wrong with me, that I have lived with for my whole life (over 50 years). It was a great relief to know that I am not a freak, just someone with a brain glitch that causes problems. There may be no cure, but I have found helpful coping mechanisms, including listening to music, even if I can't register the words most of the time. My favorite music CD is Henry V, that my sister gave me. I love all of the music on there. I also love Christmas and patriotic music, and have some of those, too, and I have a Polka CD that I like to play sometimes. Yes, I know that last one sounds silly, but just try being too depressed while thinking about, or listening to Polka music! I also like a lot of classical music, and some show tunes. So, put on some music, and cheer yourself up.
Remember, we are all just--
A Different Drummer
If a man does not keep pace with his companions,
Perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer.
Let him step to the music which he hears,
However measured or far away.
--Henry David Thoreau