I have NVLD, and my mom said out of all the kids, she ate best with me. My sister after me had spinabifida, and my sister after that was born somewhat early. So me, it's odd that I turned out with problems, considering my mom had the best habits with me. It's also possible that I got my NVLD from my mother eating well and stuff, since my verbal IQ is 130+, just the other IQ didn't grow with it. If my mom just ate like she didn't care, it's entirely possible both my IQs could be at like 90 or something, and I'd be "normal."