Do NT's despise those who are different?

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19 Nov 2011, 2:33 pm

Aspies,Mentally Challenged,Handicapped,Blind,Deaf,Mute,Crippled,Black's,Russians,Chinese,Japanese,Koreans,Eskimos,,,,?



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19 Nov 2011, 2:38 pm

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19 Nov 2011, 2:39 pm

No! Individuals may, but to state that all NT's do is judgmental. It's just as bad as saying all Aspies are incapable of empathy.


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19 Nov 2011, 2:43 pm

MrXxx wrote:
No! Individuals may, but to state that all NT's do is judgmental. It's just as bad as saying all Aspies are incapable of empathy.


Actually wouldn't that be for psychopaths...?

You don't need to be negative to judge someone, you can do it in a positive way too, like inflicting religious beliefs.

I'd like to add - I agree with both of you, I just wanted to add the above! and the "below"



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19 Nov 2011, 2:45 pm

There are 2 kinds of empathy.

Cognitive Empathy is the ability to discern other's emotions from their appearance and behavior. This is what Aspies are typically bad at.

Afective Empathy is the ability to share emotions, to have someone else's situation trigger an emotional response in you. This is what i have always though of as "sympathy," and is something that Aspies tend to do just fine.
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19 Nov 2011, 2:54 pm

It's funny, people who I chat to (but don't know me fully) don't see my vibes, but people who don't know me AT ALL seem to notice all of my vibes and stand there laughing, staring or just hating.


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19 Nov 2011, 3:02 pm

I am talking about somewhere to 85%.Do they?



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19 Nov 2011, 3:03 pm

It all depends on the person, really.



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19 Nov 2011, 3:08 pm

I don't know i ask.It may also depend on the country.Maybe 85%?



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19 Nov 2011, 3:35 pm

Really, no idea. Why bothering? I give a s**t on their opinion and don't care when they shout that freaks like me should be locked in the psychiatric ward.



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19 Nov 2011, 3:42 pm

NT's fear people who are different. I really think they are afraid of mentally challenged people. They are uncomfortable and feel threatened.



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19 Nov 2011, 3:45 pm

artrat wrote:
NT's fear people who are different.


Indeed. If you're different, you're unpredictable and if you're unpredictable, you could be dangerous.

Btw, I'll change my statement to apply to "Most NTs". Absolutes should be avoided, as not "all NTs" are the same.



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19 Nov 2011, 3:51 pm

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Do NT's despise those who are different?


The word you're looking for there is "bigots," not NT's.

big·ot (noun)
One who is strongly partial to one's own group, religion, race, or politics and is intolerant of those who differ.


Bigots, ironically, come in all shapes, colors, sizes and creeds.


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19 Nov 2011, 4:06 pm

artrat wrote:
NT's fear people who are different. I really think they are afraid of mentally challenged people. They are uncomfortable and feel threatened.

And mentally abled but different, too.

Some NT's are extreme conformist, i.e., they expect you to be like them, and actually like them. Well, If you aren't or don't, they'd do anything to make it your problem. Actually, I've experienced it. It's hard to see through it for sure. Thankfully, most of them are not that bad.



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19 Nov 2011, 4:11 pm

artrat wrote:
NT's fear people who are different. I really think they are afraid of mentally challenged people. They are uncomfortable and feel threatened.

Feeling uncomfortable is not the same as despising people.
Feeling threatened is not the same as despising people.

Bigotry is not exclusive to NTs. This thread may yet prove it.


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19 Nov 2011, 4:13 pm

readingbetweenlines wrote:
Bigotry is not exclusive to NTs. This thread may yet prove it.


You just made me giggle. thanks for that.


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