Ever freeze up at loud/sudden noises?

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Ok, so this has been bugging me for the past few years now, does anyone else go completely catatonic when you hear a loud or sudden noise? For me it's completely involuntary, I'll freeze up and stare at the noise for at least a good 4-5 seconds before I can bring myself to move again. My friends cottoned on to this a year or so ago and made a game of it (they're good friends, as*holes though) I need to know if anyone else has this quirk and if they can do anything about it.

Lil, I used to jump a mile high when I heard loud noises as a kid. It's something I grew out of. I think what helped me more than anything was having to use loud tools (gas-powered equipment, firearms, etc.). I still don't find noise pleasant, but I can deal with it now when I have to.

Well...I guess that helps. But I'm a 17 year old UK student with a build like a bloody scarecrow, and a poorly made one at that! When did you grow out of this as a kid?

It doesn't last as long for me but I do that too. This means I am very careful about whether there will be loud noises if it might be unsafe to freeze.

I freeze everytime the phone rings and stay frozen for the duration of the ringing and the message on the answering machine.

Sometimes, but it usually just pisses me off and I struggle to bottle up the rage. Which I guess creates a similar effect.

I suppose this has to do with that a big part of asperger's is the sensory integration issues and the sensory oversensitiveness/undersensitiveness. For example, if your hearing is oversensitive, then noices that others maybe won't even notice may seem overwhelming to you. And since aspies often have sensory integration issues it may be hard to notice where the disturbing noice is coming from, which puts your system under even more stress and you freeze. It's horrible, but it's just a part of being an aspie. The best way to avoid it is to just try to avoid noisy places or listen to music (with headphones) in places where you'll know there's going to be loads of noise. Don't be embarassed about this, it's just a part of your unique neurology.

I'm developing an aversion to loud noise and music, earlier in life it was not an issue for me

5 and 7 channel sound systems especially screw with me now

I think I desensitized early because I grew up in a house full of kids, but when it was supposed to be quiet, like at night, I overreacted terribly to out of place sounds. I heart/breathing would stop and it took a long time to calm down. I couldn't move or yell for my mom so I had to deal with it myself.

Now, with my kids grown, I just have the dogs and roommates and live in a rural area. I don't like a lot of noise and I still startle from loud, sudden noises. They usually just upset me, though. I might lash out at something or someone in an extreme situation but I don't freeze up. One overcomes a lot in their lifetime. I learned in my 20's that fear is a waste of time.

My daughter doesn't exactly freeze. She starts moving toward the source of the sound, which is frequently the cat. I think she wants to hunt it down and stop it no matter what it takes. I know the feeling.

No I don't freeze, but I do make a twitching motion for a split second after I hear a loud noise.