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Select the option you think is more accurate, even if no diagnosis existed
Both my parents were aspies 10%  10%  [ 7 ]
Both my parents were aspies 10%  10%  [ 7 ]
My father was aspie, my mother NT 24%  24%  [ 17 ]
My father was aspie, my mother NT 24%  24%  [ 17 ]
My mother was aspie, my father NT 7%  7%  [ 5 ]
My mother was aspie, my father NT 7%  7%  [ 5 ]
Both my parents were NT, but some of my grandparents were aspie 1%  1%  [ 1 ]
Both my parents were NT, but some of my grandparents were aspie 1%  1%  [ 1 ]
My parents and grandparents were all NT 8%  8%  [ 6 ]
My parents and grandparents were all NT 8%  8%  [ 6 ]
Total votes : 72

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09 Oct 2006, 8:40 pm

I'm doing this to get more info about a genetic origin of asperger, is it always inherited? Does it suddenly appear out of NT bloodlines?

If you are not sure about some of your parents situation you can explain it in a post. You can also post about your kids situation, if you think they inherited aspergers from you or your parents.

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09 Oct 2006, 8:44 pm

should have a "not sure" option....

im just figuring this stuff out for myself.... i haven't even figured how to bring it up to my parents...

they are both weird... so i wouldn't be surprised... and my granmother collected cat icons like no other, lol

but, i dunno. none are DXed or anything



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09 Oct 2006, 8:52 pm

Sedaka wrote:
should have a "not sure" option....


I know most people in this board are not sure about their parent's status, but a "not sure" option would give me no info at all, I'd rather get wild guesses than no answers.


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09 Oct 2006, 8:54 pm

My mother, I'm sure, was an Aspie. I am also positive that I have at least three siblings on the spectrum. My mother would periodically retreat to her bedroom and lock the door when us kids got to be too much. As an adult, I finally understand why she did this. She also showed poor judgement with talking to and trusting strangers.



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09 Oct 2006, 9:07 pm

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My mother would periodically retreat to her bedroom and lock the door when us kids got to be too much. As an adult, I finally understand why she did this.


Sounds like she had too many children, I think aspie women suffer too much when raising more than two kids.

My story: my grandfather had aspergers, i don't know where he got it. My father inherited it, and then me and my brother got it too. Now my brother had two kids and they are both NT, so it seems to have stopped on his side of the family tree. I hope I have at least one aspie son, a true heir to my skills.


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10 Oct 2006, 12:18 am

I can't really say. I've never met my father or anyone on his side of the family.



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10 Oct 2006, 2:21 am

My father has ADHD, my mother is NT, and I think maybe my grandmother (my mother's side) is aspie.



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10 Oct 2006, 3:43 am

All of my parents and grandparents are NT. Theres a chance that my uncle is on the spectrum though.



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10 Oct 2006, 7:37 am

I think my father was, definitely, although he died many years ago, he had so many Aspie traits. If he were alive now, I would say to him 'I understand'.
One of my brothers has it too, but is in denial about it.



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10 Oct 2006, 9:52 am

My dad has a few AS traits but he is severly dyslexic so maybe that could account for them.



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10 Oct 2006, 11:09 am

I think it’s hard to tell (especially with grandparents), since AS traits often get better with age.



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10 Oct 2006, 12:42 pm

I was adopted so I don't know anything about my side of the family. I'm pretty aspie though. No developmental delays (speech, motor skills et al). My husband has a sketchy paternal line, but his maternal side shows a lot of neurological disorders.



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10 Oct 2006, 12:46 pm

Both of my parents are Nts but with some AS traits. i suspect my grandfather was an Aspie but i was too young when he died to be sure



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10 Oct 2006, 2:35 pm

My father is AS, his son (my half brother) and grand daughter are also AS. I was his first child born out of marriage and adopted. From what I know of the family I think AS is rife in it and I reckon that my paternal grandmother is the 'carrier' from the previous generation.

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10 Oct 2006, 3:16 pm

I've been diagnosed, but am in denial... but if I am, then probably both my parents are, and my sister shows moderate OCDish behavour.



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10 Oct 2006, 3:16 pm

Both my parents exhibit many signs of ASD and if they are not they are really close to it as are most of my siblings and a few other relatives too. Many of the things that go along with it were normal in my house I always thought it was everyone else that was different


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