WillTheSpartan1997 wrote:
My name is Will I'm 17 years old and I have aspergers syndrome and I need help. There is/was the girl in my media class who's one year older than me and I love her, she pretty much is a female version of me, her future career maybe media related like my career will be. She is half white and half mexican and is a very nice person. She loves a God and is a Christian like me and we used to go to the same church, she is the first girl my age to ever treat me with respect, but there are problems. When either July or August comes around she will be leaving for Tennessee for college and one of my good friends (who knows her and is one of her best friends) says i'll never see her again since we both are on different paths when it comes to media and she'll most likley find a boyfirend and in this day and time find a husband, I went to my parents for advice and they said just forget about and move on from her, but the thing is I can't we have all thee things in common and I never had the balls to say I love you to her (because she dated someone from September to the end of November and I was to scared to talk to her. This is my last chance to date in high school and have a girlfriend because no other girls like me, even the nerdy girls don't want anything to do with me. If I don't get her I will lose her forever and I'll never find true love or find a girl with my interests. What should I do, I love her more than anything.
The only thing you really can do is to tell her how you feel.
Which can be extremely difficult. Would it help you if you wrote it out in a letter and have her read it with you there? That's how I communicate with my husband when I'm flustered, upset, etc.
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Your Aspie score: 171 of 200
Your Neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 40 of 200
17 May 2015, 3:14 pm
